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Posted by Megha Mishra

Aaj apne bf ko dusri ladki ke sath dekha, bahut khush tha .... Mujhe bahut bura lg raha, mujhe chhor ke wo kaise khush hai kisi ke sath..

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moderator love-matters
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Megha Mishra puttar,
I can understand, tumhe bura lagna swabhavik hai. Especially itni jaldi - yeh sab hone ke baad. But ek baat bolun - Jiss ladke ko koi farak he nahi padta aur jo tumhare saath itna bhi emotionally attached nahi hai ki iss situation main - jab ki tum bahut stressed thi - tumhara saath de - usne nahi diya. Socho to woh uss ladki ke saath bhi aise he behave karega shayad...kya tumhe wahi sab stress, wahi sab pareshaaniyan apni life main wapis chahiye? Nahi na.

To yeh socho ki jo hua achha hua. Har kisi ki life main koi na koi person aata hai - koi sabak sikhane ke liye - aur koi saath dene ke liye hamesha. Tumhara ex-bf shayad tumhe deserve he nahi karta! Tumhari life main shayad koi aur he ho beta - jo tumhe khush rakhe aur hamesha saath de tumhara - har bure waqt main. Na ki bhaag jaye musibat ke samay! So please bura mat feel karo. Bura to tumhe uss ladki ke liye lagna chahiye jo shayd uske saath thi smiley nahi ? smiley Take care! All the best ! lovematters.in
Yeh bhi padh lo - https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-mend...

Auntyji
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Thanks aunty ji, you made me smile...