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Posted by martinvipin

Aunty g me bht pareshan hu maine apko pehle b btaya tha ki me ek ldki se pyr krta hu ..hum dono relation me b the bht pyr krte the hum dono k bich sex b ho chuka h kafi bar dono shadi krna chahte the..pr ab ldki ka behaviour change ho gya h ..usko ldk vale jb b dekhne ate h uska bat krne ka tarika he bdl jata h or jb rishta n hota to fir se vese ho jati h kafi tym se maine usse bat krni bnd kr di...ldayi hone ki vjh se ab usne jo ki uska dost tha usse bat krna start kr di or un dono ki bat itni badh gi ki vo ldka apni family ko usk ghr lekr aya shadi ki bat krne ...bina relation k to koi b ldka ldki shadi ki bat kaise kr skte h ??or vo dono ek saal se b jada tym se bat kr rhe h ...ab me kya smjhu ..??usne muje cheat kiya ya fir ab vo kisi or k sath rehna chahti h ?or muje bolti h me tumse pyr krti ho abi b meri to smjh se bahr h sb ap btao me kya kru??plzz help

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martinvipin puttar,
mamla to clear hai na. WOh tum me ab interested nahi hai - tabhi to shaadi ki baat kissi aur se kar rahi hai. Uska shayad tum me ab interest nahi raha. Woh sirf tumhara mann rakhne ke liye abhi bhi bol deti hai ki woh tumse pyar karti hai. Lekin again woh tumse sach me pyar karti to woh doosre ladkon se kyu baat karti - wo bhi 1 saal se ? Socho. Tumhe yeh accept karna hoga ki woh ladki aur tumhara koi future nahi hai. So please uske baare main sochna band kar do - aur apni life ko asaan banao. Tum bahut stress main hoge uski wajah se. Ho sakta hai ki tum dono ek time ek doosre se bahut pyar karte the - lekin woh past tha. Present main woh tumse door ja chuki hai. So iss baat ko tum jitni jaldi acceot karoge - utna achha hoga tumhare liye beta. I know tough hai - bura lag raha hoga tumhe - vishwaas nahi ho raha hoga - but please accept karo - aur apni life main aage badho. Naye dost banao aur apni life aur apni khushion pe focus karo - all the best! https://lovematters.in/hi/%E0%A4%AC%E0%A5%8D%E0%A4%B0%E0%A5%87%E0%A4%95%... Yeh bhi padho

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Aunty g vo physical relation me b thi mere sath or sb frnds ko bolti h ki me shadi n krna chahta tha usse isliye vo aisa kr rhi h ..or ab b bolti h tumhari vjh se hua h sb ..maine aisa kuch kiya he n h or ab b ku frnds ko aisa bolti h ..uota usko koi or psnd h to muje aaj b badnaam krne me lgi h ...aisa ku??

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Or ulta vo muje bolti h tum matlabi ho ..jbki sbkuch uski mrji se hua yha tk ki jb b milte the hum vo park me kiss krne lg jati thi or agr me pyar n krta to gussa ho jati thi bolti tumko pyar krne ka mn n krta mere sath kya me achi n hu...yha tk ki vo mere penis ko suck krti park me he vo kaise ho skti h aise smjh n ara h...??

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Aunty g vo physical relation me b thi mere sath or sb frnds ko bolti h ki me shadi n krna chahta tha usse isliye vo aisa kr rhi h ..or ab b bolti h tumhari vjh se hua h sb ..maine aisa kuch kiya he n h or ab b ku frnds ko aisa bolti h ..uota usko koi or psnd h to muje aaj b badnaam krne me lgi h ...aisa ku??

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martinvipin | puttar,

Shaayad hum physical relations ko bahut importance dete hai life main. Woh thi to. tum bhi to the - right? Tum dono ne jo bhi kia ek saath kia. Woh Past tha. Jo beet gaya. Ab agar woh tumko kasoorwar bol rahi hai - matlabi bolti hai - to woh tumko respect nahi kar rahi. Kya tum aise relationship main sach main rehna chahte ho jisme koi tumko izzat he nahi deta? Sex to log ek doosre se karte he hai - iska matlab yeh to nahi ki woh kissi aur ke saath nahi kar sakte? Ya fir uss ladki ne tumhare saath sex kar liya ab woh tum se shaadi kare? Sex ur shaadi do alag alag cheezeein hain. Sex ho gaya. Theek hai. Iska matlab life long commitment nahi hai.

Pyar bhi insaan karta hai - lekin agar uss pyar main ladai jhagde hone lagein, pyar main ek doosre ke liye izzat he na rahe - aisa pyar main agar commitment kia tha - to iska matlab yeh to nahi ki woh ab saari umar tumhare saath jhelegi? Agar uska mann nahi hai beta to usko kyu force kar rahe ho? Log ek relation main jab khush nahi hote to he woh aise bahane banate hain - ki tumhari wajah se yeh hua - woh hua, aisa hua, waisa hua!

Woh bhi yahi kar rahi hai. Ho sakta hai woh iss relationship se bore ho chuki hai ya fir woh kabhi serious thi he nahi ya fir usko koi aur pasand hai. Asli wajah to wahi jaanti hai. Tum agar sacche ho - apni life main - aur tumne kuch galat nahi kia - to tumhe darne ki koi zaroorat nahi.

Uske aise strange behavious ki Wajah kuch bhi ho - Sachhai yeh hai ki woh tumhare main AB, AAJ, interested nahi hai. Tumhari koi respect nahi karti. Tum iss baat ko jitni jaldi samjhoge, tumhare liye utna he achha hoga. Life main aage badho. Uske peeche time waste mat karo. Life bahut achhi hai - galat logon ke saath isko waste mat karo. Meri salah to yahi hai. Aage tumhari marzi! https://lovematters.in/hi

Auntyji