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Posted by Mr.Mathur

Aunty ji jaisa apne kaha sb bhool jao ok bhool jao lkn wo mere khas rishtedaar mein ek na ek din mulakat hona lkn phr mei kya krunga agr mila th mein sb bhula cheej samne aayega phr kitna pareshan hota hu ye soch k ki khi mei jao aur mulakat ho jye th

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Mr.Mathur puttar, dekho beta maine bhoolne se zyada tumko aage badhne ke liye kaha - maaf karne ke liye - aur yeh bhi kaha ki tum apna badhapan dikhao - maaf karne wala zyada bada hota hai. So beta usne tumhare saath jo bhi kia - chahhe woh galat he hai - usko maaf karo do - apne mann se. Ab doosri baat - Agar woh saamne aati bhi hai - to haan thodi mushil ya embrassing situation to hogi pehle pehle. Lekin jab tum apne mann aur apne dimag ko itna train kar loge ki tumko uske hone na hone se kuch farak na pade - to woh saamne bhi aa jaye to kuch nahi hoga! Bas thodi der purani yaad shayad aaye - par beta - tum agar apne mann se kissi ko nikal do - uss chapter ko he close kar do - to kuch farak nahi padega. Aur socho - agar tum aisa karne main safal ho jaate ho - to usko dekh ke kitna shocking lagega!

Woh sochegi ki tum udaas hoge/pareshan hoge - majnu ki tarah uske peeche peeche aaoge - usko tang karoge etc but tum bilkul ulta karo! Tum aise ban jao ki woh tumhare liye bilkul doosre logo ki tarah hai - koi door ki bua chahchi etc - jiske hone na hone se tumhe na farak pade - tum apni life main khush ho, tumhare naye dost hon, tum ache dikho, life main aage tarakki karo - aur khood acchi life jee rahe ho! Aisa karne ki koshish karo - tumhe khud achha lagega -- apne mind ko itna strong banao ki uska hona, na hona, ek he room main - tumhare liye koi mayne na rakhe! Isko move on karna kehte hai - kissi person ne agar tumhe block kia hai aur tumhare saath theek nahi kia to tumko bhi usko apni life aur apne dimag se he block kar dena chaiye. Itna ki - woh tumhare liye exist he na kare.

Bas tumhe apna mann pakka karna hoga, usko apni life se permanently block karna hoga, uska number/social media/uski photos - sab kuch! Yeh tabhi possible hai agar tum apne mann ke pakke ho - determined ho - apne main ichha shakti rakhne ho - aur aisa karna chahte ho aur achhi life ko apnana chahte ho - aur naye dost banao - nayi umang lao life main. Time lagega - lekin agar ichha shakti achhi ho to beta sab ho jaata hai. All the best! https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/getting-ove...

Auntyji
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Thank you Aunty jii ab mujhe ek naya josh mila h mujhe smjh aagya ki kya krna h aur ab confindence level high h isiliye mein aapko sb btata hu bht pasand h aap hmein sare dukh ka niwaran ho gya

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Mr.Mathur puttar,
Please iss josh ko high rakhna -- dhalne mat dena ! Phases aate rahenge - yaad bhi aayegi - lekin apna maksad kabhi mat bhoolna - All the best!

Auntyji