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Posted by Mr.Mathur

Aunty jii bht confusion h mera dimag bht chlt h ye khiye ki hm job krte h wrna pagal ho jate h abhi subah just uth k likh rhe h raat mein sotey hui bhi yhi sb chlta h gf k barein mein th koi puchega th kya krenge future aur past mein jee rhe h aunty hm roj subah neend mein ulta sidha chal rha h dimag mein ladki k sath bitye kuch pal baat kiye hui pal overthinking bht h.
Aur aunty ek cheej btye ki jaise hm log agr kisi janwar k sath kuch pl bita lete h th dono ko yaad ata h waise jo ladki chhod k gyi hoti h usko kbhi dimaag mein nhi ata h ki hm ye kiye the wo kiye kuch yaad nhi ata h bina kisi thosh karan k chhod gyi lkn kya uska kbhi mn nhi krta h.
Aise sb ghumta rhta h subah so uth k se khli smy neend mein khi depression mein th nhi ja rha hu mein aunty lkn agr aise logo k beech rhta hu th khush rhta hu sbko hasata hu bht aur ghr walo ko apne relation k barein mein btya tha mein lkn phr btya ki ab baat nhi hoti h lkn ab ajeeb lgta h unlogo ko dekhta hu th bht ajeeb si bechaini machi rhti h ab mein apko ye baat bta rha hu th dukh ho rha h phr post krne k baad khush rhunga aur ek cheej h ki jaise msg ata h mujhe maloom h ki uska msg nhi h phr bhi mnn nhi manta h aur mein dod k jata hu msg dekhne apne mn ko smjha nhi pa rha hu indori ishq dekh k aur uljhan ho gyi hmein.

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moderator love-matters
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Mr.Mathur puttar,
main samajh sakti hun beta. Bahut mushkil hota hai yeh time. Kya tum kuch din ke liye kahin aur jaa sakte ho? Chutti pe? Apne doston ke saath ya kissi aur ke ghar 1 week ke liye? Hawa paani change hoga to ho sakta hai tumhe achha lage? Try kar ke dekho.
Aur tum bilkul sahi keh rahe ho - jaanwar se bhi pyar ho jaata hai - i am sure usko bhi bahut yaad aati hogi but shayad uski koi majboori hai? Shaayad woh nahi chahti baat karna kyunki woh shayad itni emotionally attached nahi thi jitna ki tum the? Shayad woh practical hai - yeh to tum he zyada achha janoge beta ki woh kaisi nature ki hai. kuch log sensitive hote hain - tumhare jaise - jo ki insaan ko bhool nahi pate aur hamesha usko yaad karte hain.
Lekin kuch log bahut practical hote hai - jo hua woh usko bhula deta hain aur fir life main aage badh jaate hain. Aise log khush rehte hain - depression main nahi jaate.
Main tum se bhi yahi kehna chahungi ki tumhe change ki zaroorat hai. Life main kuch naya karo - maybe ek puppy adopt kar lo jiska tum khyal rakh sako ya fir kahin ghoom ke aao ek hafte ke liye?
Agar fir bhi in sab se farak nahi padta to beta ek baar ja ke mil lo usse - directly uske ghar pe ja ke - kissi bhi bahane se - bina bataye jao - aur usko apne dil ka haal bata do - sab kuch - ki tum kiss tarah se pareshan ho - depression main ja rahe ho - aage jo hoga, usko accept kar lena fir. All the best! https://lovematters.in/en/

Auntyji
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Aunty ye kaam krne ka mn th kiya lkn ab nhi krenge kyunki wo mujhe yaad ati h ye sahi h lkn wo mujhe meri maa ko gali di h r**ndi khi h isiliye jb ladai sochta hu aur call record pyaar wala aur ladai sunta hu th bht gussa ata h lkkn love kiya hu isiliye bhul nhi pta mein aur mein socha tha phle milne ko lkn wo goan ya coching krti h jaha waha h confirm nhi kyunki ab kuch bhi baat nhi hoti h.
Ek din mujhse glti hui is ka Ex bhi mera rishtedar h th usko btya th sb btya ki ab wo kis k sath mein us ldke ka naam btya tha th sb detail diya ki wo wahi h mein janta hu lkn inka ex close rishtedaar h jo ab maja leta h mera aur wo 4 ladko k sath rh chuki h.
Isiliye milna bekaar h aap sahi khi h ki yaad ayegi hogi usko bhi lkn kya muh lkr mujhse baat kregi kyunki mein srf itna pucha tha ki jisse baat ki jo tumhre bhaiya h wo ab itne age mein chhote kaise ho gye whatsApp dp pr lga diye the glti se phr khi ki wo bhaiya k sale h jinki dp lkn mein doubt mein naam liya phr ladai krne lgi thi.
Mujhe uski yaad km uske sath 1 2 bar jo mile kiss kiye h bs sex nhi hua h lkn wahi pal yaad ata h uski batein jo khtti phr ab sochta hu kaisi nikli wo koi itna sccha wala jhootha pyaar kaise kr leta h ab ldki se bhrosa uth gya h ki wo sacha pyaar kr rhi h ya dhoke wla.