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Posted by Mr.Mathur

Aunty mein 2 din phle apne gf k ghr gya tha thoda kaam tha waha th jana pada total 500km up down kiya hu lkn aap jaisa khi thi waise hi neglect kiya lkn 1 din pura rhna tha waha hm dono bgl bethe h lkn kuch nhi bole na hi baat kiye bs ek dusre ki ankhe milti aur phr idhr udhr dekhne lgte the lkn mera bht mn kiya bolne ko lkn kiya nhi ek baar wo sbko mithyi de rhi thi th mere trf bhi ghumai lkn mein bina usko dekhe mna kr diya aur ek kbhi kbhi ek do sbd jo hm dono kbhi bolte the dhire se bolta jb bgl se jata lkn koi reaction nhi phr mein uski badi didi se kha ki didi aapse jaruri baat krni h th wo khi thk h lkn baat nhi ho pyi phr atey wqt no. Mang liya lkn ghr pahucha milya th nein block tha mujhe bht dukh hua ki sb log mujhe hi dokha de rhe h ab mein itna toota hu ki hr wo baat yaad aarhi h jo hm dono krte h ab srf rona aarha h aur ro rha hu kaise kya karu.

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Mr.Mathur puttar,
Beta agar uske mann me koi feelings nahi hain - aur woh baat nahi karna chahti - to please tum bhi uske baare main yaad kar ke mat bura feel karo - I know tough hai par socho - woh tumhare saamne thi - chahti to baat kar sakti thi - kuch to - lekin usne koshish bhi nahi ki. Na he uski behen ne tum se phone pe baat kari - aur tumhara number bhi block kar diya. Mujhhe khushi hai ki tum uske saamne strong rahe - aur jhuke nahi aur na he tumne usse baat karne ki koshish ki - to fir ab kyu aisa soch ke rok rahe ho. Apne mann ko majboot karo beta - apni emotions pe kaabu paao.
Ek aur baat - tumhe koi dhokha nahi de raha. Log relationships main aate hai - lekin jaroori nahi hai ki woh saari umar relationships main he rahein. Haina? Agar kisi relationship main ek doosre se nahi banti hai to ek doosre se alag ho jana zyada better hota hai. Aise relationship main rehne ka kya fayda jo sirf dukh dete hain aur khushi nahi. Log pyar khush rehne ke liye karte hai - na ki ek aise rishte main rehne ke liye jahan woh khush na hon - Break up karna UTNA HE NORMAL hai jitna ki pyar karna beta. Agar pyar he nahi hai - to break-up kar ke move on kar lena chaiye. Na ki uss rishte main ghut ghut ke rehna chaiye ! Usne jo kiya - tum se breakup - woh dhokha nahi hai. Tumko kissi ne dhokha nahi diya beta - rishton ka tootna ek aam baat hai - aur aisa hona bhi chaiye - kissi rishte main agar pyar he nahi hai to ek saath kyu rehna ya kyu ek doosre ko jhelna. Life bahut achi hai - kissi galat insaan ke saath reh ke isko kharab nahi karna chaiye ! Aage badh jana chaiye aur life main naye dost banae chaiye ! all the best beta ! https://lovematters.in/

Auntyji