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Posted by gurugyan123

Dear Aunty g,,Mai Chinta kandy hoon,, MERI age 24 years hai,,,Jaisa ki maine aapko sabse pahle hi bata diya hai ki Meri sexual desire bahut kam huyi hai ,,aur mere ling me tightness nahi aa raha hai, pichale 2 months se. Aur maine diet plan ke bare me bhi bata diya hai ki pichale 2 months se mai sirf sada khana kha raha hoon,,(roti aur sabji),,, pahle mai sab kuch khata tha,,jaise panir,,egg,, chicken Fruits and green vegetables,,fish etc,,lekin jaise ki aapko bataya tha ki mai pichale 2 salo se Brat ya upwas rakh raha hai,,tab se sirf veg hi khata hoon,,non veg nahi. To kya Mam ye reason ho skta hai ki ye sabhi Diet supplements na lene ke wajh se mujhe ye dikkat aa rahi ho,,Aur jaisa ki apne pucha bhi tha Hmase ki main Brat ya upwas kyu rakh raha hoon,pichale 2 years se.kyoki Mai ek Ladki se bahut pyar karta tha,,aur usko pane ke maine ye Brat ya upwas rakha tha pichale 2 years se,,lekin Na to wo ladki mujhe mili aur na hi mera pyar,,Mai kya karu mam,usne mujhe abhi chhoda nahi hai par uske Ghar wale Hmase shadi karna nahi chahte hai,lekin wo chahti hai,, government job nahi hone ke karan Mai use na pa sak raha hoon,,,kyoki Bina job ke koe shadi bhi nahi karta hai aaj kal,,sab log aaj kal government job dekhate hai,,koe dil ka pyar aur mohabbat ka dard nahi samjhta hai,, Mai kya karu mam mujhe koe best upay bataeye. Plzzz..eske liye mai aapka hamesha Aabhari rahunga.

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gurugyan123 puttar,
Yeh to bahut galat hai. Kya bina govt job ke log shaadi nahi karte. Beta kya woh balig hai - 18 se upar? Agar tum dono ek doosre se pyar karte ho - aur tumhare ghar wale tumhare saath hain - to tum dono ko shaadi karne se kaanooni taur pe to koi nahi rok sakta. So uss ladki se baat karo - uske mann ki jaano - woh kya chahti hai - kya woh apne parents ke khilaaf ja ke tum se shaadi karna chahti hai - uski kya marzi hai. Agar haan - to tum dono job karke ek doosre ko support kar sakte ho aur ek achi life jee sakte ho - lekin sab kuch uss ladki ki ichha pe depend karega. Agar nahi to beta meri salah yahi hogi ki tum iss chapter ko close kar do aur apni life main aage bahdho. Mehnat karo, pehle jaisa khana khao - vrat wagera chod ke apni sehat pe dhyaan do - healthy khao - aur khhob mehnat kar ke kissi achi job maon jao! ALl the best! Yeh bhi padho - ब्रेक-अप: क्या करें और क्या ना करें? - https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/breaking-up...

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