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Posted by Mr.Mathur

Dikkt ye h ki hm log agr kisi kutte ko bhi biscuit khila ghumye 2 4 th wo apna lgne lgta h yha hm dono hmesha call pr rhte h office meinbgl video call on rhta tha aur bgl wo rhti khud khti thi ki bgl rkh ligiye bs aur ab hm khte h th khti h time hi milta mein khud time niklta tha hmne kha ki wqt niklne se niklta hm bhi busy pm program aur cm program covid duty lg jti h phr bhi call msg krta tha aur ye tyari jr rhi thi ab college mein mbbs krna tha bsc nursing kr rhi h hm mna kiye th rone lgi ki 5 min baat nhi hui th mr jyenge aasp hme chhodna chate ho phr jb hm maan gye usko time diye mock paper bheja th gussi ki ye sb mt bhejo ab khti h ki time nhi h aur akhir mein jo sochi thi mila nhi ab btao kya kre hm kaise अपने aap ko hm hke btane lgenge th bht smy lagega kya kya btye bht kuch baat hai bs aap ab smj skti ho

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Mr.Mathur puttar,
Bura mat manana, lekin jab koi ladki mana karti hai - na kehti hai - to uski respect karo. Peeche mat pado. Uski na ka matlab hai - woh interested nahi hai. Uski aur priorities hai life main - jaise ki padhai ya fir kuch aur. Uska relation tha tumhare saath - lekin iska matlab yehh nahi hai ki hamesha rahega. Jab tum nahi manoge iss baat ko - to isko stalking kehte hai - harassment - jiske liye agar wo police main teri complaint kar de to tujh par police karwayi bhi kar sakti hai - ki ladki ko baar baar force karna call karne ke liye - time nikalne ke liye - arre bhai nahi karni baaat usko - nahi rehna relation main. Chodh do usko uske haal pe na - ho gayi galti beta usse ki usne tere saath relationn banaya - ab nahi karna chahti woh - to kyu peeche padna uske? Kyu force karna? Na ka matlab na he hota hai. 10 baar na kahegi to haan nnahi ban jayega na. Kyu nahi samjhte tum? Kyu usko aur apne aap ko bhi pareshan kar rahe ho? Isko stalking kehte hain - zara padho iss link ko - https://www.indiacode.nic.in/show-data?actid=AC_CEN_5_23_00037_186045_15... Dil ko kya dimag ko samjhao. Nahi samaj aata hai - fir bhi samjhao. Kutte aur insaaan main farak hai beta. 2-4 biscuit khila ke kutta he loyal ho jata hai - insaan nahi. Insaan ke paas apni samaj hai - apni life hai - apni marzi hai! Tum bhi samjo!

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Auntu mujhe ye nhi maloom tha ab nhh krunga lkn wo phr bhi mujhe call msg krti h kbhi kbhi isilye bs mein usse puchna chahta ki hua kya achanak mera khna h ki jaise wo apne mrji pr call msg krti h phr nhi krti th mein bs janna chahta hu ya phir puri trike se chhod de ya phr jb gaon ati h th call msg kregi jaise wo bhr jti h th usko baat kya wo msg krna nhi chahti h milegi th acche se phr jate hi msg pr ldai kr leti h ab aap btyi wo mana kr rhi h ya bula rhi h wo apni marji pr mujhe chla rhi h aaj msg ki thi ki yaad aarhi h aur kl khi thi ki pareshan mt kro muje hm karad puchte h th gussati wo srf time pass krti h mujhe maloom chla ek ldke k sath aisa krti h thi wo ldka mujhe btya aur wo usko chhhod diya phr koi aur tha ab mein hu aur ek koi h confirm hua h ki jaha rh rhi h waha bna kr rkhi h bf th wahi mein khta hu ki akhir kya h ye hm na chhod pte h na sath rh pte air sidha nhi khegi jaha h waha nhi milegi lkn agr apne gaon gyi h th msg kr k bula leti h 150km h mein jata hu milne kya kru lkn msg call nhi kregi saalo tk th yaad nhi ayegi usko harrsass nhi kiya hu wo hi khi ki ye dimaag mein nhi tha ki yaha chat ho skta h mere liye pareshani mt kro

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Thoda dikkt h smjho phr maan gya phr block kr di aur aaj alg no. Se woe msg ki mein use smjh hi nhi pa rha kya kru aap hi btyi
Th socha hu ki wo srf time pass chahti h msg kregi th baat krunga call kregi th vaat krunga ab khud se na msg krunga na hi call krunga aur apni life ko alg jiyunga
Nov mein Goa trip soch rha ho aao dosto k sath thoda free ho kr waha sochunga ab agey kaise jina thank you aunty ye link dene k liye mujhe ye niyam nhi maloom bht bht dhnyawad