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Posted by Rada

Ek ladka hai jise mai pehle se janti hu wo mujhse umar me 5 saal bada hai. Kuch mahino se wo mere sath flirt kar raha hai aur mujhe social media pe har jagah follow karta hai. Long distance hone k wajah se hum aaj tak 1 hi baar mil paye hain, wo mujhse mere state milne ane k baat karta hai. Par mujhe achanak pata chala hai ki uski shadi pehle se fix thi aur agle mahine shadi hone wali h uski. Aur us ladke ne mujhse ye baat chipai aur usne mujhse juth bola ki use abhi shadi nahi karni. Mujhe ab samjh nahi aa raha ki aakhir usne aisa kia kyo mere sath? Wo mujhse chahta kya hai? Mera dil tut gya uski shadi ki news sun k kyoki mai us se pyar karne lagi thi. Maine use ab tak ye nahi bataya ki maujhe uska ye juth pata hai kyoki mai dekhna chahti hu ki wo ab age kya step leta h. Ap plz mujhe koi salah den ki mujhe kya karna chahye aur is ladke ke aisa karne k piche wajah kya ho sakti h?

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Rada putaar,
Sab se pehle to tumhe usse khul ke baat karni chahiye. Directly. Kya pata tumhe jis source se pata chala hai woh theek hai bhi ya nahi. To direct baar karo usse. Poocho usse ki kya yeh sach hai? Agar hai to usne aisa kyu kia? usko confront karo. Aur agar woh yeh maan jata hai ki haan uski shaadi hone wali hai - to Usko batao ki tumhe kitna bura laga yeh baat jaankar aur tumhe hurt feel hua hai. Usko uskii galti ka ehsaas dilao. Ek baat uski bhi suno. Ho sakta hai ki uski koi wajah rahi ho. Ho sakta hai ki woh jhooth na bol raha ho. Lekin beta agar woh jhootha hai - to ek baat usko yeh ehsaas zaroor dilao ki usne kya galti ki hai. All the best! https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/relationship-problems/c...

Auntyji
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Please aap mujhse sampark kre aap