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Posted by Ashok07

Gf ko sex k liye kese convince kerun ,

Mujhe woh bht zyada pyaari hai but uske bht bfs rahen hain aur ek k saath woh sex ker chuki , mujhe uske sex se problem nhi hai but , woh sab mind mein ghumta hai ki kisi aur n usko object jaise use ker liya woh mujhe anxiety create krta hai.
Ab mujhe darr lagta hai ki woh open nhi ho. Paa rhi hai mere saath kyunki past relationship kaafi serious thi uski

1.) Woh thoda restrain kerti hai sex se .
2.) Open minded hai but phir bhi thoda hesitate kerti hai .
3.) Hum hometown mein hi rehte hain , isliye hotel ya ghr nhi jaa skte . Mostly car mein hi. Ghumte hain

Mujhe sex ki bhook nhi hai but relationship ko thoda aage badhane k liye mujhe lgta hai zaroori hai . Hum log kiss kerlete hain but mujhe yeh darr rehta ki kahin police na pakad le hume kuch kerte hue car mein . Toh har baar mein ruk jata hun . Woh bhi initiate nhi ker paati aur na hi mein .ki kiss ya thodi intimacy ho

Please help

Answer
moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Ashok07,

Okay dost humne apke sawal ko padha. Aap keh rahe hain ki mein is rishte ko aage badhana chahta hun, lekin yeh rule kahan hai ki sex se hee ek rishta aage badhta hai. Asal mein ek rishte ko aage badhne ke liye sabse zaruri hai sex ke mamlon mein unki sehmati mein apni sehmati dikahana agar woh sehaj nahi toh agage badha hee nahi jaa sakta dost.

Aape dimaang mein yeh ghoomta hai ki unhe kisi ne object ki tarah use kiya hai. Lekin sex toh apsi sehmati, pyar se hota hai na? kya unke past BF ki current GF bhi yahi sochti hongi ki unhe us ladki ne object ki tarah use kiya hai? Phir yahan yeh soch kyun kynki shayd woh ek mahila hain? Pehle aap khud unko object/vastu ki shrendi se hata kar rakhiye kyunki mahila koi sex ki vastu nahi.

Woh past tha yeh present hai, jaise shayd aapka bhi-Present ki baat kijiye aur vichar kijiye ki agar jis bhi wajah se woh sex ke liye tayyar nahin toh iska matlab kewal na hai, aur ek saathi, pyar karne ka dawa karne wale vyakti hone ke naate aapko unki marzi ka samman karna hai, is rishte ko samya dena hai.

Pyar, saath, aapsi viwasash, samya dekar is rishte ko aage badhayiye dost. Yeh bhi padh lijiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/virginity/how-can-i-convince-her-t...

All the best.

Kiran Ki Rai.