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I am 30 year old female. before my marriage i was in relation with my cousin brother. after marriage we are not doing that. after marriage of 2 or 3 month I found my husband having lot of affair and we don’t have sexual relation. I talked to my cousin brother and again i started to love him and now i live with him and we stared business. my husband dont care me. i just want to know should i spend my life with him without marry or do marry. he is also ready to marry. what to do
goodlife puttar, Yeh sawal tere cousin brother ne bhi poocha hai. Maine usko yahan jawab diya. https://letstalk.lovematters.in/en/forum/question/hello-aunty-mai-27-yea...
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If her husband has relationship with many girls, she should think of separating from him and living a better life by being independent, getting a job ( if she does not have already) and planning her life ahead rather than living in that marriage. What will she achieve by restarting sexual relationship with you? Will you give her a sense of security? Will you not go ahead and marry someone else in a couple of years?
Then why do you have to spoil her life by asking her to be in a relationship and in an unhappy marriage? Help her come out of it and live an independent life. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/it-ok-marry-my-cousin https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/should-i-have-sex-with-...
Also, If you want to marry each other, then talk to your families and also get a dovorce first.