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Posted by goodlife

hello aunty
I am 30 year old female. before my marriage i was in relation with my cousin brother. after marriage we are not doing that. after marriage of 2 or 3 month I found my husband having lot of affair and we don’t have sexual relation. I talked to my cousin brother and again i started to love him and now i live with him and we stared business. my husband dont care me. i just want to know should i spend my life with him without marry or do marry. he is also ready to marry. what to do

moderator love-matters

goodlife puttar, Yeh sawal tere cousin brother ne bhi poocha hai. Maine usko yahan jawab diya. https://letstalk.lovematters.in/en/forum/question/hello-aunty-mai-27-yea...


This was the answer 

If her husband has relationship with many girls, she should think of separating from him and living a better life by being independent, getting a job ( if she does not have already) and planning her life ahead rather than living in that marriage. What will she achieve by restarting sexual relationship with you? Will you give her a sense of security? Will you not go ahead and marry someone else in a couple of years? 

Then why do you have to spoil her life by asking her to be in a relationship and in an unhappy marriage? Help her come out of it and live an independent life.  https://lovematters.in/hi/news/it-ok-marry-my-cousin https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/should-i-have-sex-with-...


Also, If you want to marry each other, then talk to your families and also get a dovorce first.