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Posted by Mohsinnoor

Hello aunty ji,
Aunty meri gf pichle kuch time se thik se bat nhi krti,
Pehle hm dono boht bat krte the or aksar call par khoob romance krte the,
Lekin ab wo call nhi krti me krta hu to kehti he ki bhai pass he,
Mene usse bola bhi ki agr tum is relationship se khush nhi ho to alag ho jate he, lekin wo kehti he ki wo mujhse pyaar krti he,
Me kya kru aunty please help

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moderator love-matters
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Mohsinnoor puttar,
Beta yeh bhi to ho sakta hai ki uska bhai sach main hamesha pass he hota hai - aur woh khul ke na to phone kar paa rahi hai aur na he tere se baat karti hai uske darr se. Kya uske bhai ko tumhare relation ke bare main pata hai - kahin woh iske khilaaf to nahi? Kahin woh koi problem to nahi create kar raha tumhari gf ke liye. Tum usse khul ke baat karo. Aajkal lockdown hai - sab log ghar pe he hote hain - parents, bhai-behen - aur hamesha ghar pe hote hain - aise main mushkil to aati he hai beta hamesha baat karne main phone pe. So itna stres mat lo - agar woh bol rahi hai ki woh tumse pyar karti hai to uska trust karo - aur haan usko samajhne ki koshish karo - ek dost ki tarah - ki usko kya problem hai - aur har roz koi phone kare - yeh rule mat rakho - kai baar log iss tarah ke rules se tang aa jaate hain aur ghutan mehsoos karte hain - so jab phone pe baat na ho sake - sms karo - ya facebook messenger wagera pe message kar lo - lekin usko kissi bandish main mat daalo ki itne baje fone karna he karna hai - yaa message karna he karna hai - ya itni der baat karna har roz compulsory hee hain - aisa mat karo - agar kar rahe ho to - agar woh ek - do din call nahi karti to koi baat nahi - tum message kar do miss you ka - woh samajh jayegi - usko bhi to mauka do - khul ke jeene ka. Pyar ko complusion mat banne do deta! all the best! https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/top-tips-to-deal-with-a...

Auntyji
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Aunty mene kbhi unse ye nhi kha ki daily call kro ya is time par call kro,
Sirf itna hi kha ki jb tumhe time mile to please call kr lena
But 15- 15 din tk call ni aati
Aunty boht ajeeb sa lgta he unse bat kiye bina