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Posted by Coold

Hello aunty ji
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Main apni Chachi ki ldki ko bht psnd krta hu .wo mujhe 2-3 saal choti h aur usko mne btayi bhi ye baat lekin usne ghr m bta di thi tb .uske bad uske bf ne dhokha de diya aur sex krke chhod dia .paise bhi kha gya.sbhi ko pta lga to chachi ki ldki ki bdnami ho gyi .uske parents bhole bhale h aur chachi ka afair bhi sbko pta chl gya..ab main soch rha hu ki chachi ki ldki ko fr se bta du ki m chahta hu tujhe.sb jgh badnami ho chuki h to m koi kmi ni aane dunga .jo bhi lover kahta h apni gf se wahi sb .but 70%lgra h ki maan bhi jygi but 30% dar bhi h .. positive isilye lgra h kyu ki ek to sgi ldki nhi h chachi ki wo aur upr se sb jgh se bdnami ho chuki h uski to usko loyal partner chahiye .feel hota h mujhe .m bhi pyr krta hu bht .dekhe bina chain nhi aata mujhe .btau kse main usko? Akele me bula k ya kb?

coold
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moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Coold,

Kuch bhi karne se pehle yeh zarur sochiye ki aap unki pareshani badhan chahte hain ya kum karna chahte hain. Kyunki bhale hee woh unki sagi beti nahi hain lekin hain toh aapki cousin sister hee na dost aur aap yeh toh samjhte hee honge ki cousin ke saath shaadi ya relationships kai samudayon mein swikariya nahi hai.
Aur waise bhi aapko shayd yeh baat apne mann se nikalne ki zarurat hai ki sex kar lene se koi insaan khatam/barbaad ho jata hai. yeh kewal ek dhaanrna hai jo hamne khaas taour se mahilaon ke liye apne upper haavi kar rakhi hai.

Kisi se insaan shaadi, pyar isliye karta hai kyunki woh dono hee ek doosre ko pasand karte hain ya ek barabri ke rishte mein hote hain. Isliye nahi ki koi majboori se guzar raha hai doosra insaan uska bhala karna chahte hai ya keh lijiye ki is baat ka laabh uthana chahte hain.

Isliye kuch bhi karne se pehle thoda soch-vichaar kiijye. Yeh bhi padhiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/is-it-ok-to-m...

Thanks!

Kiran Ki Rai.