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Posted by Coold

Hello aunty ji
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Mera ek ldki se relation chl ra h aur sb sahi chl ra h aur ldki ka apna past apne cousin k sath tha aur physical b aur m maaf b kr chuka tha.kl shadi m aaya wo to ro k gya to ldki ka pyr jaag gya uske liye aur ek bar to ldki ne mujhse dur hone ka socha aur fr mujhe kaha ki aapke sath hu to so smjhao mujhe mere dil lo .cousin na hota to sath hota mere n all .mne b kah dia ki mera pyr aage change laa dega aur tnsn mt le .fr b lge ki uske pas jana h to chli jaiyo future m aur wo impress ho gyi ki kis mitti k bne ho jo mere pyr m har glti ko maaf krke smjhate ho ..?
M to bs khona ni chahta bcz true love h bt kl ko dr b h ki mere sath rh k b meri na ho pai to .kyu ki cousin to kbhi dur hoga ni .rishta to fmly s juda h uska ..kya kru m? Confuse h wo bt feelings uske liye b h aur mere liye b

coold
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moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Coold,

Unka rishta past mein tha aapke saath hote huaye nahi? Toh phir woh kiss baat ki maafi maang rahee hain aur aap kyun maafi dene ki baat kar rahe hain? Barhaal dost, agar woh keh rahee hain ki woh rishta ab khatam ho chuka hai toh shayd iski gunjaish ab nahi hai-lekin haan kuch bhi nischit taur se na hum keh sakte hain na aap kyunki aap keh rahe hain woh confuse hain. Toh hum salah denge ki unhe unka time lene djiye, aap bhi thoda khud ko relax kijiye. Shayd aage chalkar kuch samjh aa paye aur aap aur woh bhi kisi nirnya par pahuch payein.

Waise bhi cousin ke saath itna karibi rishta waise bhi kai samudayon mein swikariya nahi hai:
https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/is-it-ok-to-m...
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships

All the best dost.

Kiran Ki Rai.
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Time de dia aur baat nhi ki to breakup ho jyga aur bat krte hue tym dunga tb bhi Dr bna hua h ki past k liye pyr bdh na jye aur wo kahti h kbhi apko b ni khona chahti aur kbhi kahti h koi bhi ni chahiye .ek mn mera krta h chhod du hmesha k liye itna kuch sun ne k bad aur dusra ye ki pyr itna jyda h ki har galti uski galti nhi lgti .

coold
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Aaj usne prblm btai ki cousin k sath kai br sex kia h tb m khud ko buri smjh ri thi aur lyk b ni ..ye rishta uske sath chlega ni tb dur ho jaungi aur tym lgega ..

Mne fr b maaf kr dia to ready h fr rishta chlane ko ku ki jism s rishta ni chlta m asa manta hu tb maaf kia aur past ki glti thi jo present m ni h

coold
moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Kya woh abhi bhee keh rahe hain "ye rishta uske sath chlega ni tb dur ho jaungi aur tym lgega" matlab unke cousin ke saath? sorry thoda confusing hai clear likhiye.
Agar woh abhi bhi apne cousin ke saath rishte mein possibility talash rahee hain toh aapke saath kaise baat banegi? Aapne kya socha hai? Woh confuse hain lekin aap toh apne liye ek sahi nirya le sakte hain na dost?
https://lovematters.in/hi

Kiran Ki Rai.
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Aj mne clear kr liya h aur apko bhi krwa deta hu.
Maine time dia tha usko ki sudhr jaye aur ek k sath rhe.wo wapis se pyr kar baithi thi aur physical past me ho chuki thi to abhi fr ho gyi pyr m aur mujhse kbhi argue kbhi pyr mix krne lgi . But kahti h ki usko bhi nhi chhod skti itni jldi .
Aj ye hua ki cousin ne ldki ko dhamki de di ki apne bf se bat mt krna otherwise acha nhi hoga aur kuch sach bhi btaya itne saalo m usko ki kafi ldkio k sath physical ho chuka h aur dono me fight ho gyi h.yaha p ldki puri se wapis meri side ho gyi h aur sari mistakes maan rahi h aur bol rhi ki uski wjh se hua sb aur m apko galt maan baithi .mujhe maaf krdo .shadi bhi apse krungi.
Wahi sare promises. Uss ss connection khtm kr lia,final bol dia ki mere sath h har trh se.

But mujhe abhi b Dr h ki fr se wahi sb na ho kyu ki dur se nigrani kisi pe nhi rkhi ja sktu bs trst pe hi rishta chala skte h. Bar bar maaf krne ki himmt bhi nhi h fr bhi kr deta hu kyu ki pyr krta hu .soch ra hu ye last chance de du.andr se bht dukhi hu lekin wo sath b to ek khushi milti h .kyu ki pyr body se nhi ..dil se hona phle jruri h

coold
moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Coold,

Poori sthithi aapke saamne hai. Salah hum de chuke hain, wahi baat dohara rahe hain. Khud ko samay dijiye, khud ko kisi dawab mein mat aane dijiye. Aur jo aap keh rahe hain ''lekin wo sath b to ek khushi milti h " Jab koi saath rehne lage, batein karne lage toh unki adaat ho jana samanya baat hai, jab aap apni tarf se sab khatam kar denge toh iss adaat ko bhi khatam hone mein kuch samya lagega lekin yeh bhi khatam ho jayegi.

Lekin kisi bhi surat mein nirnya aapka hai. Jald baazi mat kijiye, sthithi bahut complicated hai lekin ek saaf ishara toh de hee rahee hai jo aap bhi samjh rahe hain, aur uska zikr kar rahe hain bus zarurat hai apka dill aur dimaag jo keh raha hai usko accept karne ki. Shayd thode samya mein aap smajh jayenge aapko kya karna hai.

Hamari best wishes aapke saath hain:
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/relationship-problems/c...

Kiran Ki Rai.
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Sahi kaha ap ne .thank you so much

coold
moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hamein khushi hai. Jude rahiye, website par bhi bahut kuch hai padhne ke liye woh bhi padhte rahiye-
https://lovematters.in/hi

Kiran Ki Rai.