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Posted by Coold

Hello aunty ji
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Meri life m ek ldki aayi jiska affair apne hi cousin brother se chal ra tha mere aane se pahle aur physical bhi kafi bar ho chuki thi.mai uski life me gya tb usko ahsaas ho chuka tha ki bhai se shadi nhi ho skti lekin move on krne me 2 saal lag gye usko . Mujhe nahi pta ki thik se kar payi ki nahi lekin baate bnd nhi hui un dono ki aur mujhe pura vishwash dilaya gya ki asa kuch nahi h ab .wo ladka ab usi ki city me usi ki gali me aa kar bas gya lifetime ke liye witg family . Meri entry hone k bad ek bar physicl ho chuke h but fr is ldki ne Vishwash dilaya aur 2 saal ho gye toh fr bolti h ki thik se apko pyr ni kar payi. Kahi na kahi wo bhi h. Mne fr apne liye pyar jgaya aur full support karta aa raha hu . Aur baato se aur har kaam se loyal dikhti h aur kahti h ki bhai h to mna to ni kr skte baat krne se .pyr bhari baate nahi karti mai.

Aj ki baat h ye log dusri city me shadi m ja ri h with family aur cousin aur meri gf bhi h jis se meri shadi ki baat chalri h .sbhi mere bare me jante h iske ghr me bs father ko btana baki h aur final ho jayega.

Ab mujhe iska apne cousin k sath ghulna milna pasand nahi aata aur m kuch baat bol du to kahtu hai ki shaq kar rahe ho aur smjhte nahi ho ap aur fir shuru mt ho jana ap and all asi baate krti h

Mai bhi to insan hu. Dil dukhta h mera bhi. Bhai h to kya hua ..ex bhi to h iska yhi aur kya pta ex mana h isne ya lover hi h. Mai to bs trst kr skta hu

Coold
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moderator love-matters
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Hi, bete!! Hum aapki pareshani samajh sakte hain aur aap kis paristhiti se gujar rahe hain, ye bhi samajh mein aata hai!! Bete sabse pahli baat ki aap unse apni patreshani ke bare mein khul kar kahiye ki wo cousin unke ex rah chuke hain aur aapko unka milna pasand nahi hai, kyunki ye shaq ka karan ban sakta hai aur rishte mein pareshani aa sakta hai. Bete kisi bhi rishte mein pyar, vishwas, bharosa, ek dusre ka samman karna bahut zaruri hota hai - ye baat unhe samjhaiye. Kyunki jaisa ki aapne kaha aapse milne ke baad bhi unka apne cousin se physical ho chuki hain - aur us ladki se aapki shadi ki baat bhi chal rahi hai - toh bete ye kaisa pyar hai?? Ye kya baat hui? Wo aapke saath bhee hain aur dusre ke saath bhee. Aapko bhi ek haath mein aur doosre BF ko bhi – yeh kaun sa pyaar hai beta? Kya aapko lagta hai ki is rishte ka koi bhavishya hai? Wo aapke saath saath kisi aur ke saath bhee rahte hai. Kya aapko ye thik lagata hai? Please har tarah se vichaar kijiye aur ek sahi nirnay lijiye. Theek hai bête! Ise bhee pdhiye: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/love-and-relationships

Auntyji
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Aunty ji
Apki sari baat sahi h aur mujhe Vishwash dila chuki h ki ab un dono k raste alg alg h but norml baat ho jati h aur pahle jsa kuch nhi h...ye btaya usne mujhe.
Ab m to pyr krta hu bs bhrosa kr leta hu aur ye ziddi bhi bht h .gussa me bahut ulta bol jati h to m sawaal krne s drta bhi hu.
Aj hi iski mummy shadi se jldi ghr le aayi to kahri h ki asi maan se naa hona thik h aur m bhag jàungi n all .
Ek time me asi baat krti h ki fmly hi sb kuch h.
Main resn gussa h iska .bad m thik ho jati h

M sawaal isilye nhi krta ku ki kahti h ki m kitni bar vishwash dila chuki hu ki asa kuch nhi h .

Mne fir iski choti sister ko btana chaha aur mujhe pta chla to wo kahti h ki jiju mujhe sab pta hai iska past .ap dekho apko aage kya krna h ..

Mne mn m socha h ki pyr kr liya h to father maan gye to thik h otherwise khud picha chhut jayega.
Positive aur negetive dono dekhne ko milta h isme.
Wse to smjhdar h aur rishta nibhati aa rahi h..baat shadi tk pahuch gyi h with family.

Coold