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Posted by Deep12340

Hello aunty ji namastey
Male 27,
Aapse puchna ye h ki m ek ldki k sath relationship me hu aur dono loyal h mil chuke h aur shadi ka decesion lia h.ab ldki bolti h ki bdi sis ki shadi ho jaye 2mnths bad tb ghr m bta dungi kyu ki abhi tnsn h sbko aur kbhi kbhi dr jati h ki nhi bta pai to kse rhungi apke bina? Ya ap bta dena tb aa k ghr .mne kaha ki m abhi bta deta hu father ko tumare kyu ki nature acha h smjhdar h maan jaynge pta bhi h .bt ajib sa dr h ki shru kaha se kre aur kon phle btaye? Mne to bta rakha h ghr m mother ko apni .kbhi sochta hu ldki ko btane du .wo na bta pai tb m btau uske ghr aur wo drti b h ki negetive response hua to sb kuch cheen lia agr us se to? Ye bs mn ka wahem h hmara aur positive sochte h hum.hme kya krna chahiye?

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Right. Sabse pehle - kya ko vajeh hai jo ki unke mann mein is kism ke darr aa rahe hain? Kya veh kuch chupaa rahee hain aapse? Yad woh kuch jaaanti hai - aur bata nahin rahee - to wasie bhi aap dono ke liye mushkil hogee - hai na?
Now. Maaniye ki unki family ko mana karna hai - aap dono ko alag karne ki sochenge veh - right?
To kum se kum yeh to clear ho jaayega ki aap dono ko kya karna hai. Ki age badhna hai - apni life khud bananee hai - ya phir peeche hat jaana hai . Ab bina bataaye aur darr mein rehna to nirantar nahin ho sakta hai na? Kabhi na kabhi to woh ya yeh rishta nibhayegee ya koi aur - so abhi hee pata chal jaaye?
Yadi aapko lagta hai ki aapki families ready ho jaayengee - to apne parents se request kar ke unko rishta bhiej saktey hain - aur phir paat chal jaayega.
Better hoga ki veh kum se kum kisi se to salah lein apne ghar mein. Ki aapke parents aage badhe aur veh unhe lauta dein - to woh bhi ajeeb hai.
https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/reasons-for-marriage