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Posted by Lokesh_123

Hello aunty ji.....mere mama ji ki ladki hamare ghar 4 sal se rha rhi h or hmm dono ek hi collage me padh rhe h hmm dono ache friends bhi h ek bar mene uske kahne par use lip kiss kiya tha par ab bat kiss se sex ki or badh gyi h mujhe pta h ki ye galat hoga par me ab kya karu kuch bataye

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Lokesh_123 puttar, dekho beta, yeh achhi baat hai ki tum samajh rahe ho ki yeh galat hai - to mujhe tumhe yeh batane ki zaroorat nahi padegi ki rishtedaari main kiya gaya sex - kissi bhi tareeke se theek nahi hai - dekha jaye to woh tumhari behen hai. Jo pehle hua so hua, lekin aapko aur usko ab seriously iss baare main sochna chaiye ki aap dono galat kar rahe hai - aur yeh idea apne mann se nikaal dena chaiye kyunki yeh harkat aapki sister ke poori zindigi pe asar kar saktee hai, saath hee apka rishta bhi kharab ho jayega. Woh aage chal ke apni life main iss baat ko kabhi bhi bhool nahi payegi - aur isko ek sexual harassment/jabardasti kiye gaye sex ki nazar se he dekhegi - chahe uski marzi se he kiya gaya ho! Aur ek bahut important baat - - kya woh 18 saal se upar hai? Agar nahi to uske saath kissi bhi tarah ka physical relation rakhna illegal hai - kanoon ke khilaf - issmein aapko POCSO act ke under saza bhi ho sakti hai - abhi na bhi woh bataye - lekin agar woh 4-5 saal baad bhi batayegi kissi ko aur koi aapki complaint kar dega to police case ho jayega aur ismein bahut lambi saza hai - Yakeen nahi aata to yahan detail main padh lo - https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/heshe-is-17-can-we-have-sex-if-we-... Aur agar woh 18 se upare hai - to bhi woh aapko sexual harassment ke case main fasa sakti hai - ki aapne jaan bhoojh ke iss kadam ko uthane se usko mana nahi kia aur uske saath sex kia - chhahe woh abhi kuch na kare - lekin kuch saal baad bhi kar sakti hai - ya agar yeh baat uske parents ko pata chale kabhi future main - ya uske life partner ko - to bhi aap problem main fass sakte hain. Yeh mera maanna hai beta. Mera farz tha tumhe hone wale saare risks ke baare main bata dun - aage tum dono ki marzi. Aur agar iss baare main kissi bhi family ke member ko pata chal gaya ya kissi ne dekh liya to aap dono bahut he badi musibat main padh jaoge. Yeh bhi padh lo - https://lovematters.in/en/news/i-am-attracted-my-sister End main sirf yahi kehna chahoongi - kuch rishtey sex ke liye nahin bane hain- unmain family sex bhi shaamil hai - so apni feelings pe control karo - Tum samajhdaar lagte ho - jaante ho ki yeh galat hai - sahi rah chuno beta. Galat raasta asaan lagta hai - mazedaar bhi lagta hai - lekin baad main bahut pachtana padta hai wahan. Sahi raasta mushkil hota hai lekin end main wahi sab se achha saabit hota hai! https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/sex-within-the-family-p... - yeh bhi padh lo ! 

Auntyji