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Khushi Hasan
Posted by Khushi Hasan

Hello aunty kaisi hai aap..aunty mai 3 saal se ek ladke ke sath relationship me hu mai wo hindu hai or mai muslim starting me hmre beech sab kuch accha tha hm log ek dusre ko aise hi accept kr rhe the lkn kuch time bad usne kaha muje hindu dhram follow krna hoga mai ready ho gyi fr sb thk tha kuch time phle unki fmly me kuch problms aa gyi jiski wajah se wo bhut preshan hai fr thoda thoda krke sb normal hua lkn last year se unka behave bhut bdal gya hai mai kuch bi kahti hu wo unhe bura lg jata hai or turant breakup ki bat kah dete hai or ab wo mujhse zada bat bi ni krte or hmesha ye kahte hai ke mere sath aana unki galti hai or wo arrange marrige krege kya ye unki problams ki wajah se hai ya wo cahte hai mujse ab alag hona but aunty mai bhut serious hu is relationship me or hum itna aage aa gye hai ke mai ab wapas nhi ho paa rhi plz muje btaiye mai ye sab kaise manage kru aisa kya kru jo wo mujse phle jaise behave kre

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moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Dear Khushi,

Hum samjh rahe hain aap kaisa mehsoos kar rahee hain dost-Yeh waqai dill dukhane waali baat hai. Lekin kuch batein jo hum aapse kehne jaa rahe hain woh bhi sunkar-samjh kar dekhiye, phir bataiye aapka kya kehna hai.

Woh insaan jo pyar karne ke daawon ke saath aapse aapki pehchaan badalne ki baat karta hai, ab unhe yeh rishta galti lagta hai, rishta khatam karna chahte hain kya aapko lagta hai ki woh kabhi bhi aapke pyar-bhaorse ke layak they.

Yeh phase bhale hee aapko abhi dukh de raha hai lekin kahin na kahin yeh aapko aane wali taqleefon se bachne ka mauka bhi de raha hai.

Aur khushi, hum ismein koi do rai nahi hai kee jab do dharmon ke log aapas mein rishte mein judte hain, shaadi ki baat aati hai toh bahut saari chunotiyan isse jud jaati hai, bahut kum log isko paar kar paate hain. Jismein aapka yeh BF aisa koi bhi sanket nahi de raha ki yeh aapko ek samman puravk pyar ke rishte mein rakh payega!

Aur aap jiss relationship ki gambheerta ki baat kar rahee hain woh tab hota hai jab yeh dono logon ki taraf se ho aur ismein pyaar ke saath ek doosre ki respect bhi shamil ho.

Bus, hamara yeh kehna hai is baat ko jinti jaldi ho sake swikaar kijiye ki is rishete mein aapke liye na pyaar hai na bhavishya.

In sab baton par gaur kijiye aur apne liye sahi nirnya lijiye. Yeh bhi padhiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/hamanae-saadai-karanae-kaa-phaaisalaa...

Thanks!

Kiran Ki Rai.