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Posted by sonu_k

Hello Auntyji,

Mera sawal ye hai ki, kya aise ladko ko jinki shakal kharab hai unhe marriage karni chahiye ? Kyunki mujhe lagta hai kaafi sari ladkiyan sirf apne parents ke kehne par shadi kar to oeti hai lekin agar ladka dikhne me acha na ho to uski taraf attracted feel nhi karti.

Ye jawab na dein ki love marriage kar lu kyunki mere case me wo possible nahi haimeri shakal bahut kharab hai aur mujhe logo se baat karne me bhi hichkichahat hoti hai kya meri kabhi girlfriend ban payegi ya shadi ho payegi ?

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sonu_k puttar, Shakal he sab kuch nahi hoti - insaan main aur bhi bahut se qualities hoti hain. Ab tum apne Bollywood main he dekh lo - Om puri, Nawazudin siddiqi, Irfaan khaan, rajkumar rao - aise bahut saare actors hain jo ki typical hero wali shakal wale nahi hain - to kya log unko pasad nahi karte? Kya unki shaadi nahi hogi? Yeh issliye kyunki unhone apni shakal aur face se upaar uth ke uss cheez pe kaam kiya jo unki strength hai - unki khoobhi hai. Ladkiyan unko unke kaam ke liye pasad karti hai - aur shakal ke baare main sochti bhi nahi.

I am sure tum mein bhi asi koi na koi khoobhi hogi beta - jaise padne main achha hona, doosron ki respect karna, samaj ke liye kuch achha karna ya kuch bhi - to beta apni woh khoobhi dhoondo aur uss pe kaa karo, uss ko nikhaaro - aur ek kaamyaab aadmi bano. Ladki ho ya ladka - har kisi ko kaamyaab, intelligent aur mehnati log ache lagte hain. To apni uss khoobi ko dhoondo - sakal soorat ko itna importance mat do - agar tum insaan achhe aur kaamyaab hoge - to har koi tumhari taraf attract hoga. https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/i-am-too-shy-will-i-eve...

Auntyji