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Posted by Kapil.t

Hello Madam

My problem becomes difficult, not able to do sex more than 10-15 strokes. My wife expecting hard and if I do then I release my cum immediately inside her. She is expecting more time. How to overcome from this problem.

Now days are her safe days, yesterday we had unprotected sex and but not able to do more time.

Is it any problem in me. She is satisfied in foreplay. Sometimes I feel her little selfish behaviour, she don't give me oral but when she want oral pleasure then she do for me. Oral is not my problem. But last long.

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moderator love-matters
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Kapil.t puttar,
Nahi no problem in you. Real life is not like porn movies. its normal to last for 2-4 minutes after penetration. Isse zada nahi hota hai real life main - sirf porn movies main hota hai. Beta jaldi hone se koi baat nahin, don’t worry. So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do.
Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh jaldi discharge hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain.
Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai.
https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/...
Aur jab tum akele ho - to - yeh kar sakte ho thoda control karne ke liye apne ko - Start or stop ki technique - jismein ki jaise he tumko lagta hai ki ab ejaculation ya viryapaat hone wala hai - to tum ruk jao. Apna dhyan kahi aur karo. Ling ko touch mat karo. Fir jab erection khatam ho jaye to dobara yahi process 2-3 baar karo.

https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
And talk to your wife - why is she expecting more time? Do you give her orgasm by finger or oral sex? If not you should make sure that she is satisfied before you have penetration. Read here - https://lovematters.in/en/female-orgasms-everything-you-want-to-know

Auntyji
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Kya meri wife ki sex ki expectations Jada hai comparison se? Mein foreplay karata hun, oral bhi deta hun, wife moaning bhi karati hai, lekin sex mein julab use oragasum aa raha hota hai tabhi mein ejaculate kar jata hu. Kya muje penis pe aane wali feelings ko band kar sakata hu?

Aap ne bataya vaise hi hai, mein sex karate samay excited rehata hun aur ye bhi sahi hai ki condom se time Jada bad jata hai. Lekin muje ejaculation time Jada acchi feelings milati hai. Yehi agar penis masterbating karati hai toh long time Tak discharge nahi hota

Kya food khana chahiye ya kya nahi?
Penis ki hardness maintain rakhane ke liye aur feeling control ke liye koi excercise hai kya?

Mere sath mere parents bhi rehate hai, is liye excitement control rakh s x karana hota hai

moderator love-matters
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Puttar,
Zadatar ladkiyon ko sex ke time penetration se orgasm nahi hota. Yeh bahut he kam possible hai - shayad na ke barabar! Shayad tab agar tum apnni penis se uski clitoris ko ragad do. Wo penetration ke daurann to possible nahi hai. So mujhe nahi pata ki woh kyu aisa demand kar rahi h ai. Shayad tum usko finger ya vibrator ke saath orgasm de sakte ho. Yahan detail main padho - https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbating-her...

You can read this page for tips to increase your sex time - https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/how-to-increase-sex-time

Also read this tip on how long should sex last - https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/how-long-does-sex-normally-last

Auntyji