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Posted by Abhy

Hello mam

Main pehli baar apni girl frnd ke saath sex krne jaa rha hu
But mujhe ek baat ko leke bahut confusion hai or dar bhi hai
Ki main condom laga ke virginity todunga to kahi condom fat na jaaye
Kya mam aisa ho skta hai

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moderator love-matters
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Abhy puttar, Tension mat lo. Mujhe yeh sun ke acha laga ki tum condom use kar rahe ho - uske liye shabash! Aur ek baat - virginity ki koi seal nahi hoti hai jisko tod ke andar ghsna hota hai. Woh to bas vagina ke ird gird ek jhilli jause hoti hai jo sex ke dauran thoda sa strech hoti hai pehli baar. Socho agar kuch seal jaisa hota to ladkiyon ko periods main blood kaise aata? so tension mat lo - aur first time sex karne se pehle use saath khood relax hona - usko relaxed feel karwana taaki dard kam ho - yoni bahut choti hoti hai aur lacheele bhi. So Jald baazi mat karna phele finger se try karna, koi lubrication use karna jaise aloe vera gel ya KY jelly… Lekin apki partner ko bahut hee relaxed mehsoonn karwana hai aur tumko bhi is dauran bahut hee support karna hai. Poora ling ek hee baar andar jaaye yeh bilkul zaroori nahin, aur na hee iski rai dee jaati hai. iske barre mein yeh padhiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts

AUR agar maan lo 1% ki condom fat jaata hai - to emergency contraceptive goli ko 24 se 72 hours ke andar liya ja sakta hai - uske baare main yahan padho - 

I Pill ek emergency goli hai jo ki unsafe sex ke 72 ghanton ke andar hee lee jaati hai, jitnee jaldi so behtar. Lekin yeh mahila ke masik dharm par asar kar saktee hai. PLEASE in goliyoun ko  laparvahi se istemaal mat keejiye.

Safe sex ke liye condom ka istemal kiya jaata hai naa ki emergency pills ka bête, yaha padho zara: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex 

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Auntyji