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Posted by Sharad22

Hello mam
Mam jab mai 8 th class me tha tab first meri best friend ladki thi tab muze usase bahut lagav ho gaya tha aur muze love mehsus hone laga tha proposed Kiya lekin usne accept nahi Kiya achhe dost banke rahenge bol ke abhi ham dost hai bad mai mai kisi ladki se aakarshit nahi huaa ..
Bad mai apna best friend jo ladka hai uske ke sath jyada time bitane laga use hi sab kuchh share karne laga jais ki mai usas pyar karne laga hun aise do dost ke sath mehsus kiya aur unse jyada aakarshit hone laga .... Ye aam bat hai ki koi ladka kisi ladki ke pyar ke liye apni jindagi me badlav kar lete hai ya pyar me jindagi barbad kar lete hai ..par muze ab aisa lagta hai ki Mai apne dost se pyar karne laga hun uske prati Mera aakarshan ho raha .. To kya muzeme koi harmons alag ho sakte hai kya .. kya mai anya purush ki tarah nahi hun?

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Sharad22 puttar,
Nahi yeh koi hormones ki gadbad ya koi problem nahi hai. Agar tum apne dost ki taraf attracted ho - to kahin se hamdardi ki wajah se to nahi hai - ki shayad usne hamesha tumhara saath diya? Issliye? Doston ki taraf attract hona normal hai - hum unke saath itna time spend karte hain, inti batein karte hain - so kai baar ek dost ke liye aisa ho jaata hai.

Lekin purush bhi doosri purushon ki taraf attract hote hain. Yeh bhi bilkul normal hai. Ismein koi pareshani wali baat nahi. Aisa hota hai bahut logon ke saath! Aur Kai baar hum purshon aur mahilaon dono ki taraf bhi aakarshit hote hain - yeh bhi samanya hai! Ismein bhi koi problem wali baat nahi hai. Tum shayad apni life ke aisi stage main ho jahan tum sab kuch explore kar rahe ho - apne aap ko time do aur kisi bhi natije par abhi mat pahuncho. Dekho dheere dheere ki tumhe kya achha lagta hai! Iske baare main aur jaankari yahan padho - https://lovematters.in/hi/sexual-diversity/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-tran...

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