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Posted by Ajay77

Hi m ajay delhi se age 36 unmarried hu m last 5 year se ek shadishuda ladies ke sath rishte m hu uske ghar ke mandir m hi maine uski maang bhi bhari h shadi ki h... humare bich sex bhi kai baar hua h... par nov 2020 se usne mujhse brkup kr liya h wo kehti itne saal se tumhare sath rishte m hu aajtak tumne mujhe kuch nhi diya ye sach bhi h mam jabki maine hi usse kareeb 40 hazaar udhaar liye hue h jinme se 22 hazaar m de chuka hu.... baat wo aaj bhi krti h mujhse ache se par ab pyar wali bat nhi rhi m usko wapish lana chahata hu mam... usse jyada pyar na mujhe koi kr sakta na koi krega.... mujhe kahi or shadi nhi krni bas uska bankar rehna h.....plz btaye m kya kru 5 mahine ho gye m uske ghr bhi nhi gya meri family m kuch prblems h jis wajah se m usko uska na haq de saka na pyar....

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Ajay77 puttar,
Jaise ki tumne bola ki woh married hai, aur tum dono ne pichle 5 saal se agar decision nahi liya ek saath hona ka - to iska matlab yaho ho sakta hai ki ya to tum ussko apni life partner banane ke liye tayyar nahi the , ya to woh apne pati se divorce lekar tum se shaadi nahi karna chahti hai. Aur rahi baat ghar ke mandir main maang bhar ke shaadi karne ki - to yeh shaadi bilkul legal nahi hai, iski koi maanyata nahi hai, koi legality nahi hai. Yeh sirf tum apne mann ko tassali dene ke liye kar rahe ho.
Tum ek baar usse baat karke dekho ki kya woh apne pati ko divorce dene ke liye tayyar hai? Kya woh tum ko apna life partner banana chahti hai? Tum ko apne sawalon ka jawab mil jayega.Waise bhi agar usne tum se break-up kar liya hai beta - to tum kyu nahi maan lete ki woh life main tumhare saath sab kuch bhula ke aage badhna chahti hai. Tumko bhi apni life pe focus karna chaiye.

Lekin agar woh bhi raazi hai tumhare saath rehne ke liye to tum dono ko pehle yeh nischit karna hoga ki woh apne pati se divorce le le. Iss baare main baat karo beta usse. Fir jo bhi faisla lo - soch samaj ke lo! All the best - https://lovematters.in/en/marriage/marriage-troubles/divorce

Auntyji