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Posted by Patient25

Hi ma'am
Apse ek question tha why I always feel pain during intercouse although i use k jelly lubricant still it pains uske baad theek normal pain hota hai lekin shuru shuru ke 1-2 min kaafi painful rehtaa hai uske baad sahii jata hai lekin voh ek do min ek chuban sii pain hoti hai...
Gyno ke paas jane ke paise nahi haiiii vrna online dikha deti also mjhe phone bhi mushkil se 2 min ke liye dete hai aur naa koi aas paas frnd hai jisse paise ya phone le sku main naa bf yaha rehta hai so jldi solution chahie tha mjhe kyunki jhaa main hu vaha aas paas koi gyno nahi hai toh blkl hi possible nahi hai isiliye aap hi ek last option ho so please btaiye aisa kyu hotaa hai shuru ke 1-2 min itne painful kyu hote hai uske baad sahi ho jata hai... also hum foreplay bhi krte hai kaafi so koi please solution btaiye???

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Patient25 puttar,
Dekho kai baar sex ke time pe shuru shuru main pain hona common hai - agar sex karte samay saara time pain rahe to chinta ki baat hai. Lekin tum keh rahi ho ki aisa nahi hai to stress mat lo. Dheere dheere normal ho jayega samay ke saath. Kya tumhara partner condom use karta hai? Agar haan to maybe condom ka brand change karke dekho. Aur partner ko bolo ki slow enter kare - ek dam se na kare - dheere dheere - jaise tumhe comfortable lage - waise kare .
Aur tum usko pehle finger karne ke liye bhi keh sakti ho - usse bhi pain kam hoga.
Aur haan, jab bhi sex karo - uska erection theek hona chaiye - kam erection main bhi pain ho sakta hai. Aur ek karan pain ka hota hai - UTI - ya urine infection ya fir koi STI - Yaun sankramit rog - lekin iske baare main detail main sirf doctor he check kar sakti hai. Kuch tests se. Online main nahi bata paungi. Agar sab karne ke baad na theek ho to yeh karan bhi ho sakta hai.

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