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Posted by Ajaysai

Hi ma'am mere bahaut sare sawal hai
meri gf ke 2 din pehle he periods khatam ho gaye the and kal hum log ne sex kiya

1.Uski hymen already break ho chuki hai and hum ne almost 6 to 7 months ke baad sex kiya lekin jab hum kar rahe the toh usko pain ho raha tha me ne 2 time kiya 2 no time usko pain hua aisa kyu?

2. Mere ling mai tanav aata tha lekin thik se khada nhi hota tha jiske wajah se wo dhila padh jata tha me thik se sex nhi kar pa raha tha dono time kiya same problem hui mere sath ?

3. Lekin jab me ne kaise taise khada kar ke uske sath sex kiya toh jyada der tak tik nhi paya dono time mera veerya jaldi baher aaya aur wo satisfied nhi ho payi hum ne sex ke pehle bahaut time tak kiss wo sab kiya fir bhi mera jaldi nikla

4. Me ne condom use kiya tha but ling mai dhila pan aa raha tha jiske wajah se wo fisal raha tha aur mera discharge hua toh kya koi possibilitiy hai mera veerya uske andar jane kr jab ki mene condom use kiya dono time same problem hua

5. Me jab 2nd time sex karne ja raha tha tab mera thoda sa veerya baki tha toh wo aa raha tha usne mere ling ko uske vagina pe rub kiya aur andar daal ne he wali thi toh me ne usko roka kya koi possibilities hai mere sperms ka uske body mai jana jise wo pregnant ho sakti hai

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Ajaysai puttar,

1. Hymen break hone ka pain se koi lena dena nahi hai. Durd hone ka ek sabse mehtvpuran karan yeh ho skata hai ki apki partner sex ke liye theek tarah se tyyar hi nahi hui hon. Bete yeh baat bohot achhe se samjh lo aap ki sex karnye ke lieye dono hi partners ko tanavmukat hona bohot hi zaruri hai! Aur dono ka tyyar hona mentally, physically, emotionally bhi bohot zarurui hai.

Ho sakta hai unhe koi darr ho ya doubt, yeh bhi ki who pregnancy se darti hon ya society se? Jo bhi ho shayed who abhi tayyar nahin, pehele yeh sab baatein clear karo aur phir sex ki planning. Sirf ek person ready hai aur doosre nahin, so phir toh koi maza nahin na? Aap samjh rahe hain na mera matlab? isliye make sure ki apki partner in sab cheezon ke liye tayyar hui hain. zara yeh padhiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts
https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed

2. Kahin tum kisi tension, pressure mein toh nahi hain na? Kabhi kabhi work load, tension ya pressure ke karan bhi aisa ho sakta hai. Agar kisi na kisi waqk penis mein tanav aa raha ho toh itni bhi chinta karne ki zarurat nahi hai bête. yeh samjh lo ki sex karne ke liye bilkul tanav mukt hona zaruri hai bête :
Iss bare mein aur yaha padh lo :
https://lovematters.in/hi/news/4-signs-you-have-erectile-dysfunction

3. Beta jaldi hone se koi baat nahin, dont worry. So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do.
Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain.
Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai.
https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/...

4. as long as ek drop bhi andar chale jaye, pregnancy ke chance hain.

5. Pre-cum woh fluid ya taral padarth hota hai jo ki sex se pehle penis se nikalta hai. Agar aise main pensih vagina main daal dein to pregnancy ke thode bahut chances hote hain. Zyada chances tab hote hain jab tumne ek baar pehle sex kia - penis main ejaculation ke baad kuch sperm reh gaya - aur fir dobara sex karne ke liye penis ko vagina main daal diya. Aise main pregnancy ke chances to hote hain. Yahan padh lein - क्या स्खलन से पूर्व निकलने वाले तरल से भी महिलाएं गर्भवती हो सकती हैं? https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/pre-cum-can-it-cause-pregnancy Lekin jaisa ki tum ne pehle likha ki sex periods hone ke baad kiya tha - to chances thode kam he hain!

Auntyji