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Jitendra Mahendra Maurya
Posted by Jitendra Mahendra Maurya

Hi,
Mai aur ek ladki pichle 6 months se relationship mai hai . Usse pehle bhi uska ek bf tha aur wo mujhse relationship mai hote hue bhi usse baat krti thi but thora bahut. Ye baat us ladke ko bhi pta thi but ek din usne uske paas aa kr jha wo job krti hai mujhe call kiya ki ab mai us ladki se baat na kiya kru aur sath hi us ladki ko bhi mna kiya mujhse baat krne ko.
Tab se wo ladki mujhse baat to krti hai per Love nhi bolti hai, kehti hai ki mai sirf ek se hi pyar kr skti hu.
Aur sath k sath ye bhi bolti rehti hai ki wo mujhse jayada pyar krti hai itna pyar wo usse nhi krti .
Mai usko block krke rakhta hu but wo mujhe msg krke kaise bhi baat kr leti hai .
Kai baar usne mere phone per apne dosto k phone se call bhi kiya jab maine usko block krke rakha
Wo kehti hai ki wo ab bhi mujhse pyar krti hai
Mai kya kru usse baat krta thi ya fir band kr du bilkul.
Mai usse puchta hu ki kya wo bapas ha skti hai mere pass tab wo bolti hai ki pta hai
Mai do rahe per khadi hu.
Pls bataiye mai kya kru

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Jitendra Mahendra Maurya puttar
Sab se pehle beta yeh bata ki kya woh ladki tujh se sach main pyar karti hai? Ya uss ladke se? Agar woh tere se pyaar karti hai aur tere saath relationship continue karna chahti hai - to tum dono ko uske ex-boyfried ya us ladke se darne ki koi zaroorat nahi hai. Lekin beta sab se pehle uss ladki ko apna mind clear karna hoga - woh tum se pyar karti hai ya usse. Agar woh confused hai - aur abhi bhi bolti hai ki usko pata nahi - to iska matlab hai ki woh usse pyar karti hai.

Agar woh tum se pyar karti hai aur uss ladke se darti hai - to tum uska saath do - uss ladke se baat karo- nahi maanta to uski complaint karo - police ko ya fir mahila help line main. Aur last baat - kya tum uss ladki to wapis chance dena chahte ho? Beta inn sab baton ko araam se socho, vichar karo - aur soch samaj ke faisla karo ! https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/mind-it-we-are-just-fri...

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