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Posted by Lokeshtanwar

hi mam

how r u

pls help to advise mam

me or meri gf h jo ek dusre se love krte h hmare becch hug or.kiss.hua hai nd krte bhi hai. but me usse shadi ki bt kehta hoo to ans nhi deti kich family.k wjeh se or wo door.jame bhi nhi deti hai kya kroo me mjhe usse marriage krni hai nd uski family.ladki dhekti rehti h wo muse bdi bhi 3 yrs

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Hello Lokeshtanwar,

Ghoom ka charcha phir ussi sawal par aa gai hai jiss par hum pehle charcha kar chuke hain-Nirnya aapko lena hai. Saath hee please yahan koi bhi niji jaankari unki chats ityadi mat share kijiye-Yeh ek tarah se unki privacy ka ulanghan hai yeh sarahniya nahi.

Antt mein, woh apni taraf se bilkul clear hain, please koi dawab banan avoid kijiye.
https://lovematters.in/hi

All the best!

Kiran Ki Rai.
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problwm main uski family ki h .....nd wo bol rhi thi me apse bhut love kti hooo....shyd shadi na karpaau .....eshi condition m kya kroo mam

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Break waali baat kewal itni hai ki agar aap abhi confused hain, samjh nahi araha hai toh khud ko is sthithi ko ek break dijiye-Kuch samya baad dobara dekhiye kya badlaav hauye hain, aap kya chahte hain, woh kya chahti hai ityadi.

Ek aur baat aap keh rahe hain is rishte ko sirf ek saal hua hai, aur is duration mein woh shaadi ke liye haan nahi kar rahee hai, aap rishta khatam karna chahte hain-Aapko nahi lagta ek saal ke duration mein sab batein bahut jyada hai. Shadi karne ke liye kum se kum ek doosre se milna, samjhna bhi toh zaruri hai.

Ab is bare mein hum aapse kaafi charcha kar chuke hain aap ab thoda samya lijiye, khud ko ek break dijiye. Is saari charcha, ismein diye gaye links ek baar phir padhiye.

https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships

All the best!

Kiran Ki Rai.
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hello mam mjhe advise kro mjhe kya krna chahie eshi condition me

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mam mene apki bat mjhe lgta hai jese chl rha h wese chlne dena chahie shyd abhi hmare realtion ko 1 sal bhi nhi huaa to .....nd aap keh rhebho ki hurt se nikl ja skta hai to thk ...jese chal rha h wese chone deta hooo jo hga fir dheka jaaega .....mjhe usko trust family n krne m mehnat krni hogi.......nd mam mjhe ye break wali bt nhi smj aayi......kiuki mam god k bina shyd kuch nhi h.....

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Ok dost, jo aap soch rahein hain woh shayad sahi hi hain, kisko shadi jaise bade nirnay ko lene mein waqt bhi lag sakta ahin, jab we taiyyar hain, ready hain tab weh haa kar saktee hain, ya na bhi, dono ke liye tayyar rehna hoga dost.
Yadi aap is samay is rishte ko zyada waqt nahi dena chahte, ya aapko lagta hain ki abhi hurt hona ok hain, bad mein hurt hona zyada hurt karega, to yeh to aapki apni soch hain, hurt se bahar bhi aa sakte hain. haan waqt zaroor lagta hain, lekin ye mumkin hain,
Ek break bhi le sakte hain , jsmein aap is rishte ko lekar gehrayee se soch ne ka samay le sakte hain. phir nirnay liya ja sakta hain ?
https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-brea..., ise bhi padhiye...

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hello mam how r u

becuase mam mjhe islie socha mne kiuki jo ladki abhi shadi k haa nhi bolti to bd m kese haa bol skti h.........nd or trust krna bhi muskil hai .......best yhi mam is realtionship end krna best h ..... becuase hurt to hga abhi bhi but aage jo hga ussr kam hi hga....

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Hello Lokeshtanwar,

Yeh sach hai ki shaadi ek bahut hee bada decision hai jiske bare mein har nazar se sochna zaruri hai. Aur kewal har tarah se tayyar hone ke baad hee aage badha chahiye. Lekin apki likhi anya batein thodi unclear hain. Isliye agar aapne yeh nirnya khud ke liye le liya hai toh kuch vichar ke baad hee liya hoga, jo ki theek hai.

Ab bus unhe bhi kisi andhere mein mat rakhiye, iske bare mein unhe bhi zarur bata dijiye. Yeh bhi padh lijiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-brea...

Thanks!

Kiran Ki Rai.
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Hi mam
how r u. all good mam
mam mjhe lgta hai ki mjhe isnrealtion ship ko chone dealna jes achl rha h ...... becuase mam shadi krna kisi k life ia bhut bda decision h......becuasr m uskobolta clg m pdlo pdti bui nhi. h....becuase mam lgta h shadi krna bhut decision h to isme mjhe time dens vhahie...m

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Hmm. shayad unhe kuch waqt ki zarurat hain, kya aap dono ek break le sakte hain, jismein aap dono is rishte ke prati kuch gehrayee se soch pahyenge.. ki ye aage badh sakta hain , aap chahte hain ya nahi... unhe bhi sochne ke liye kehyiye aur is kism ki asmanjas ko leke kuch sujhav samne aa sakte hain jo aap dono ke liye mehatvpurna honge?
https://lovematters.in/en/love-and-relationships/happy-relationships/the..., ise bhi padhiye.

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noted with thanks mam
mam mne apki bt suni or smjhi becuase problem ye h me usse jb puchta hoo aap kya chate ho to wo kuch nhi kehti ....me kehta hoo usse ki shadi nhi krni to wo kehti hai pta nhi .....mere pass ans nhi hai......bolti h bs me apse bhut pyar katri hooooo..........

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Hello Lokeshtanwar,

Hum aapki duvidha samjh sakte hain dost. Toh ho sakta hai ki unki family mein kuch niji issues chal rahe hon, ya shayd woh swikaar nahi karenge yeh batein soch kar woh chup hain. Nischit taur par kuch bhi keh pana toh mushqil hai, kyun nahi aap unse baat karein, aapki is rishte se kya apkeksha hai woh spasht kahein aur unki bhi sune. Is smaya mill kar meeting karna toh shayd mushqil hoga toh yeh batein aap agar possible ho toh jald-baazi mein lekin shaanti se, bina jhagda-alochna kiye phone par baat kijiye baat karne ke bare mein sochiye.

Phir aage kuch kaha jaa sakta hai. Jahan tak age ki baat hai toh age toh agar aap dono pyar karte hain, aapsi sehmati hai toh yeh koi badi baat nahi.

Is douran aap bhi shaadi ke bare mein yahan padh lijiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage

All the best!

Kiran Ki Rai.