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Posted by Gautam_1__2

Hii aunty ji Maine apni bahan ko aaj kiss krne ke liye bol diya tha wo ho gya bs or ab mujhe guilt feel ho rha h ab wo mujhse baat nhi kar rhi h mai kya kru

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Gautam_1__2 puttar,
Yeh bahut achhi baat hai ki tumko guilty feel ho raha hai. Hona bhi chaiye. Sex/kiss ke liye kuch rishton mein bilkul hi manahi hai, jin me family sex bhi shamil hai, samajik roop ya kisi bhi nazar family sex ki permission nahi hai!
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/sex-within-the-family-p... - yeh article padh lo beta.
Ab sab se pehle to tum apne aap se promise karo ki yeh harkat tum dobara na to karoge - balki sochoge bhi nahi!
To beta jab tum apne mann main yeh soch lo - uske baat tum apni behen se haath jod kar maafi maango. Jo tumne kiya hai woh galat he nahi - bahut zyada galat hai. Pata nahi iske baat woh tum pe kabhi trust kar bhi payegi ya nahi - uske liye yeh bahut he shocking hoga puttar.
Socho, jiss bhai ko woh bachpach se apna dost maan rahi thi, apna saathi, jisko shayad woh raakhi bhi baandti ho - wohi aise harkat kare - to kaisa lagega? Ho sakta hai woh tumhe abhi maaf na kare - ho sakta hai kuch time lage usko. Usko time do. Yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki woh ab tumhare par kabhi trust na kare - tum dono ka rishta pehle jaisa na rahe - yeh sab depend karta hai uski maansik sthithi pe beta. So usse maafi maango aur agar woh na maaf kare - to wait karo - kuch months - kuch time. Iss beech kuch bhi galat mat karna uske saath. Uske faisle ko respect karna. All the best!

Auntyji