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Posted by vishal

Hii, I am 25 now...i have completed my mechanical engineering.. The problem is i don't have any goal or i don't know what i want to do in life i am completely clueless.. Whenever i try to think about it everytime i get different answer .. i am not able to decide anything.. I want to do Buisness but my parents are not allowing me and saying ki pahile job karlo tumhe experience ayega fir business karna... But mera Buisness idea mere engineering field se pura alag he to ye job kaise help karega? And if in last i want to do Buisness why shouldn't i start now? Because muze lagta he ke agar mai ab start karuna to maybe lets assume ki 29-30 tak buisness settle hoga... Aur tabtak muzpe koi responsibility nahi hogi jaise bacheka education and all... But agar mai yahi 10 sal bad karta hu to tab muzpe bahot sari responsibilities aa jayegi... And second if i want to do job then i want to do in finance .. muze share market me intrest he... My parents even not allowing me to work in this field too... I want to do what i like and they just want me to work in mechanical field only jisme muze age career ki icha he hi nahi... Bas is bat se gharpe mahol tang rahta he... Muze nahi samaz aa raha mam... Muze finance me career krna he to muze atleast aur 3 sal padhai karni padegi... Wo mai definately fir job ke sath karunga... But still again new question ata he ki agar mai 3 saal padhta hu aur fir muze settle hone me lets assume 2 sal aur lagenge to mai shadi kab karu? Because i want to get mary when i am settleed aur fur muze ye bhi lagta he ki 30 years is too late to be married... I am just clueless and depressed please help... Can you call me?


Hi Vishal.
We can understand your situation. It is a tough phase. However we are no the best people for career advise. Do seek out someone who can help you better. About marriage - just a word. That marry when you are ready in every way - financially, career wise and of course emotionally.
Taking on new roles when your path is not clear, is neer a good idea for yourself or the other person.
We wish you the best of luck.