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kamal sing
Posted by kamal sing

Hlo Mam good morning

Mam me bhoot hi Ajib trh ki condition me hu.
Meri GF hai uske pahle ek BF tha vo usko sahi se time nhi deta tha fir bhi uski GF ne 1 Saal tk uski yad me usko miss karte hue rote hue nikla me uska frnd tha to vo mujhe sab kuchh batati thi fir fir dheere ham dono karib aa gye or fir uske bad usne us se bat krna band kr diya or usko bol diya ki vo kisi or se bat karti hai to ab vo uske sath nhi rehna chahti fir unki bat bilkul kam ho gyi thi vo bat ni krte the.
Ladki ka clg mere hi shahar me hai or vo yhi rehti hai rent pr ek din uske Ex ne mere shahr me hi Dukaan khol di ab vo bhi yhi rehta hai.

Ab problem ye hai ki meri GF aaj bhi usko bhoot miss karti hai or Roti hai vo bolti me aapse bahooy pyar karti hu pr me usko bhool nhi sakti ma chahte hue bhi miss karti hu.
Mujhe ye sab achha ni lagta vo ladka bhi usko miss krta hai or Rota hai pr meri GF ab us se koi bat ni krna chahti. Mene bola ki me aapse bat ni karu aap apne pahle wale bf ke pas chale jao to usne mna kr diya ki esa hai to vo kisi se bat ni karegi bat karegi to sirf mujhse hi lekin vo uske BF ko miss bhi karti hai. Is condition me me kuchh smaj ni pa rhae kya kru.

Pls help me

K
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kamal sing puttar,

Kissi ko miss karna, specially apne ex - bf ko, normal baat hai. Woh tum se iss liye khul ke baat kar rahi hai kyunki woh tumhari dost thi uss time pe - aur tum sab jaante ho. Agar woh kissi aur ke saath relationship rakhti to shayad woh ukso itna nahi bata pati - lekin miss to fir bhi karti na. Kuch time do usko - kai logon ko 3-4 saal lag jaate hai break-up se heal hone me. Jab bhi woh uski baat kare - tum baat badal do ya fir bolo chalo ab kuch aur baat karte hain! miss karna alag baat hai - miss karke uspe acction to nahi le rahi na - pyar to tum se he karti hai. To fir kiss baat ka tension? Stree mat lo - ek doosre ke saath acha time spend karo! https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/relationship-problems/w...

Auntyji
kamal sing
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Tqq mam for your answer.

Lekin vo ladka abhi bhi usko msg call karta hai or bolta hai ki tu mere pas wapas aaja us se bat krna band kr de vo usko video call kr ke rota hai or sorry bolta hai Bar bar esi hi harkate karta hai jis se meri gf pareshan ho gyi hai usne kitni bar mna bhi kr diya hai fir bhi bar bar pareshan karta hai meri GF use Block bhi nhi krna chahti.
Or vo ladka meri GF ko har kuch bolta hai ki tune mujhe dhokha diya cheat kiya kabhi kabhi to gali bhi deta hai or bolta hai tu uske sath khus nhi rahegi. Vo chahta ki Vo uske pas wapas chali jaye lekin vo mujhse bahoot pyar karti hai vo nhi jana chahti.

K
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Yeh to galat hai beta. Teri gf ko uss ladke ko bloack karna chahiye. Aur zyada pareshan kare to uski police complaint karni chaiyi. Block matlab - sab jagah se block - phone, social media aur apni life se. Agar woh aisa nnahi kar rahi hai to daal me kuch kala hai. Tum usse khul ke baat karo ki usko ya to hamesha ke liye block kar do - ya fir tumko yeh manzoor nahi. Jab tak wo uski block nahi karti - tum usse baat mat karo. Agar woh ladka usko stalk karta hai ya peecha karta hai - to fir uski police complaint kar do - bilkul theek ho jayega woh ek he baar main! Lekin tab tak apni gf se ho sake to baat mat karo jab tak woh uske touch me hai! Yeh theek nahi hai!!

Auntyji