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Posted by SaMir 123456

Hy everyone..
Meri gf thi.karib ek sal ho Chuka hum log ka Breck up...humare bich Avi kuch nai...bohot muskil ma kisi tarha khud ko thik rakh pata hu.. anxiety, becheni, or depression sa thoda khud ko thik rakhne ka kosis Kar raha.. ma usse har chiz ma unfollow karke baitha hu humko uske bare ma kuch nai Janna...but it's really hurt...kavi mil jate to..achanak sa apne apne chale jate a.its hurting by it's ok.. par ekdin February ma she suddenly met me pucha how r u.. bass my reply hum thik ha... And then she suddenly ask me ki bich ma apka Ghar jaugi...kuch Kam ha mane kaha ok...fir 3 din woh aayi...and she invited me for her sister marriage ceremony...thik...woh din thoda bat ho Gaya..bohot depressed ho Gaya but after 2 days I am ok...fir..hum Sadi ma Gaya vi nai...mane har kuch ma use unfollow Kiya..tha...but kahi sa uska kuch pta chalta hai..Aya achanak janta hu kuch to I am like... pagal Kya karu ma...kue mere sath...esa kuch...

Actually humke jab relasonship sure Kiya...she was like...aap mujha thoda treat Karo..like an husband like..kaha ja rahi ho..kue ja rahi ho..and eha mat Jao..waha mat Jao...and social media mat chalao..eya sab usne mujha kaha ki aap agar ei sab karoge to it's fells good like apana paan...fir I am not that type of guy..lekin maina Kiya eyasab or usne Mana vi kuch pehla pehla it's fells like kaise mujha tum mill gayi....
That when I get too much serious my felling is attech with her then she..started disagree...woh ab bol n lagi...eha sab humko accha nai lag raha.... Or woh jaan bujhke like ei nai karna ha naa..to ehi karenga...then woh sab bat ma jagra hona bat na ho Pana...I fell hurt.gusaaa and everything thing mix up... Fir woh bohot kuch problem bohot kuch ka baad after 5 long year we broke up...but my fellings like..hum usse pyar karta hai...kuch din gussa ha par Sadi humsa hi karegi..and bohot apna Wala fells...and I addmited myself that I love her very much...
Lekin woh broke up bohot muskil sa samjhala khud ko...kosis tarha...
Last post maina Kiya tha love matters ma tavi I was like ma kuch ho jaunga lekin ab pehla sati thik hu...lekin ek bat...last usse jab woh invite Dane aayi thi tab bat huwa...and 2 bar calls ma..jab bohot hi low ho Gaya tha..fells ma tab call Kiya tha..she ignore me lekin I was like ekbar bat karna hi ha....
To Avi woh like Ghar aahi this us time ma she show's me like...just looks me I am so attretive , smart and confidendent sexy and everything and of course she is so pretty।।lekin thik ha
Ab problem mujhse eha ho raha ..
Ki woh har woh chiz Jo humko pasand nhi woh Kya rahi ha...and thik ha ab humko usse kehna ka koi haq nahi sahi ha ..to thik ha..din jayega to kisi tarha he'll ho jaunga...
Lekin last time usse phone Kar ka eya laga..ki she has no fellings...usko lgta hi nahi.ki hum usse pyar Kiya...and like maina usse humesa Mera hi this like...mutlab Kya bole...
To mujha eya bate sab kavi kavi. Bohot presan. Kar raha ha Avi ki...woh kue nahi samjhi...I do everything humko usko last moment Tak vi apna banana chahte tha..lekin woh samjhi hi nahi ek bar vi nai.to kue nai samjhi...or har woh chiz Jo nahi karna chahiya that woh hr woh chiz bar bar Kar rahi ha...and she was like maina kuch galat nai kiya hum apne jaga thik ha....
To hum also apne jaga thik ha..I am ok kisi tarha khud ko sahi rakha ha..but..ek aadmi achanak Etna change kaise ho saka ha...achanak Kya huwa...woh mujha Etna hurt kaise Kar sakta hai..woh woh Mera Etna efforts ko Avi kuch nai samjhti...so thiz thing litterly presan Kar raha mujhe...or sab bate to hai..hi..I get hurt mostly everyday..but thik ha..I though it was a process of broke up bass lekin sanse bada questions woh kaise Etna change ho sakti ha...or kaise woska kavi laga hi nahi...ki hum kuch ha kuch kareha uske liye..mutlab hum Jo uske liye actually fell karek ha..woh to woh kavi smahhi hi nahi..
This felling hurt me a lot kue ki woh har type hum ea Jo accha nahi lage woh Kara raha ha...
Hum sure ha humko usse firse nai Lana life ma

But eya jo fells eisne totally ignore Aya khatam kaise Kare..
Kya Kare Jo ab kuch Fark hi na pade...
Jab bohot depressed tha USS time sa win chizo pa bohot Kam kiya ha..lekin I know hum uske samne bohot kamjoor padta hai...so mutlat eya jo thought ha achanak badal gayi..or kuch nai samjhi ...kue ekhir kue Etna sab Kar Diya Kar rahi...eya thought sa Bahar finally kaise nikla plz plz plz suggest me help me..

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SaMir 123456 beta,
Kaise ho? I know tum usko bhool nahi paa rahe ho beta. Tumhe bas ek baat samajhani hogi - ki woh move on kar gayi hai - issliye beta usko farak nahi padta shayad ab itna jitna ki tumhe padh raha hai. Aur yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki woh tumhare saamne strong ban rahi ho lekin andar he andar tumhare jaisa hee feel kar rahi h. Beta uske dil ki baat to woh hee bata sakti hai.
Lekin beta - tum apne aap ko pls sambhalo. Tum soch rahe ho ki woh aisa kyu kar rahi hai. I know yeh tough hai ki hum jisse bahut pyaar karte hon - usko jaldi bhool jayein. Kuch log tere aur mere jaise emotional hote hai - nahi bhool paate jaldi, but kuch log practical hote hai. Nahi bani to koi baat nahi - aage badho, aur dost banao, khush raho - type. Maybe tum waise nahi ho aur woh waise hai? Ismein koi burai nahi hai. Dekho sab se badi baat to yeh hai ki - woh theek hai, apni life main khush hai. haina? Agar tum usse sach main pyaar karte ho - aur iss baat pe bhi clear ho ki ab tumhara aur uska koi future nahi hai - to issi baat main satify ho jaane ki koshish karo ki woh jahan hai - khush hai.

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Tum kuch naye dost banane ke baare main bhi soch kar dekho - achha lagega. Try to karo.
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