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khushu
Posted by khushu

i am 22 year virgin girl..i have friend{close or best friend} i like him.but family prob ki wajahse hum saadi nhi kar skte..ab hum soulmate he..we decide to do sex.or ekdusre ko satisfy krenge..hum 6 yr se saath he or sab me help ki h ek dusre ko....he is really nice guy..and i want sex from him. thats why he will give me satisfaction..but mujhe dar lag raha he ki ye sahi he? hum intercourse nhi karenge bas rub hi krenge..humne socha bad me intercorse krenge.usne bola agr tumhe iccha ho to hum first time me krege verna nhi..kabhi kisi or din krenge..muje iccha to h par darr lagta h ki kya hoga.pain hoga..or bahut...kya kare??????me uske saath saadi ke baad bhi sona chahti hu..kisiko kuch nhi pta chalne denge..plzz help...

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Mod_Aindrila
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Hello,

Pehli baar sexual intercourse ke dauran dard ya takhleef ho...aisa zaruri nahi hai. Aap aur aapke partner ek dusre ko samay de.Ek dusre ke pasand aur pasand ko janne ki koshish karen aur ek dusre ke sharir ko samajhen. Foreplay wali kriyaen jaise kissing, hugging etc bhi ki jaa sakti hai. Lubricant ka bhi istamaal kiya jaa sakta hai taaki sex anandmaye tareeke se ho payen. Lekin is baat ka dhyaan rakhen ki paani se nirmit (water based) lubricant ka istamaal karen warna aapka condom fatt sakta hai. (Surakshit sex ke liye condom ka istamaal karen). Aur haan, praveshit sex (penetrative sex) ke alava bhi anya kayi kriyaen (jaisa ki aapne likha hai - dry humping ya kapdo ke upar se rub karna etc) yeh bhi sex ki hi kriyaen maani jaati hai. Zaruri nahi ki hamesha sex mein pravesh hi karna hota hai. Woh sab kriyaen aap apne partner ke saath kar sakti hai jo aap dono ko anand deta hai. Adhik jaankari ke liye padhen: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love
https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/first-time-sex

Aur haan, aap shaadi ke baad bhi apne iss friend ke saath samband kayam rakhna chahti hai, hai na? Kya aapne apne dost ke saath yeh charcha ki hai ki agar kisi ko pata chal gaya aap dono ke sambandh ke baare mein, toh kya aap aur aapke dost samaajik kathinaiyo ka saamna kar payenge? Kya woh tayyar hai saamajik zokhim uthane ke liye? Yahan aap dono ke suraksha ki baat bhi ho sakti hai, isliye iss vishay pe thoda chintan karen.

Dhanyavaad!

khushu
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ok ..thnk u so mch