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anshu7895
Posted by anshu7895

As I asked my aged friend he is married... As he said ...ki ek aurat ek baby ko birth deti h ,,uske baad b uski vegina me 3-4 finger ek sath enter nahi kar paati ....reason ye h kuki uski wife ne sex srf apne husband k sth hi kiya h ..or kisi k sth nahi,,.,.
To phir ek 16 saal ki ladki jo khud sex k liye force krti h ...uski vegina me kese 3-4 finger ek sath enter kr jati hain??...jisme wo kehti h ki wo virgin or pehle kisi k sath sex nahi kiya h ... Maine jitne b married frndss se pucha unka yahi kehna h ki wo ladki jhut bol rahi h..,usne sex kiya h pehle b ,.,ek k sath nahi ek se jyada logo k sath,..nahi to 16 ki age me ye haal possible nahi h ...or to or...us ladki k 3-4 boyfriends reh chuke hain...wo b usse jyada age k.. Ab aap kripa krke btaynge ki kya wo virgin h??... Maine jab b us ladki se pucha to usne yahi bola ki...use is bare me koi safai nahi dene h .,,tume jo sochna h sochte raho... Plz clarify...

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moderator Mod_Satya
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Dear Anshul
"is bare me koi safai nahi dene h .,,tume jo sochna h sochte raho"- I think uska jawab ek dam sahi hai!!
Aapko apni maansikta badalne ki jarurat hai. Agar koi - aap virgin hain ya nahi - puchhe to kaisa lagega aap ko? Aur dosti aap insaan se kar rahe hain ya sirf uski "Virginity" se?
Waqt hai ki ye sab peechhe chhod kar aap aage jayein aur insaan ko uske pure wazud ke sath accept karna, appreciate karna seekhein.
"Virginity" ek dakianusi andh-vishwas hai. Ye links dekhein:
https://lovematters.in/en/resource/hymen-and-virginity
Dhanyawad!

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anshu7895
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Mera dil ku nahi maan raha h phir ki wo virgin h krke.... Main uske mann ki baat jaan leta hu btao ab aap

anshu7895
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Aap meri maansikta k bare me to bol rahe,ho.... Lekin wo ladki agar mere se physical relationship bna rahi h...wo sath hi sath kisi or se b physical relationship bnaygi... Even main apna 100% Ku na du is relationship me..ab btaiye meko kya karna chahiye

moderator Mod_Satya
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Dear Anshul
Usne to apna jawab saaf saaf de diya hai. Ab aapko faisla karna hai ki aap is rishte me rehna chahte hain ya nahi. Agar aap santusht nahi hai to aap ko kucch samay duri bana kar dekh sakte hain.
Dhanyawad

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anshu7895
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Problem ye ha ki I love her...mere koi b ladki itni pass nahi ayi h jitni ye ayi h ....iske siwa kisi ladki ko Chua nahi ha maine... Isko chod pana mushkil h mere liye...kuki main loyal rehta hu and sach bolna and sunna pasand h mjhe... Lekin wo ladki mere se jhut bol rahi h ....kaafi jhut bole hain mere se... Main,b insaan se hi pyar krta hu na ki..uski vriginity se...lekin yrr wo ek bar mere se share to kare apna past ki kitno se physically committed hui h .... Wo kuch nahi btati h

moderator Mod_Satya
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Dear Anshul
Agar aap sachmuch pyar karte hain to ye tamam baatein bhula kar wah jaisi hai, waise hi use sweekar karein. Pyar me saudebazi nahi hoti. Jab aap sweekar karenge - tab open communication ka mahaul banega dheere dheere. Tab shayad aap dono khul kar bat kar sakein. Dusri bat "I love her" ko ek problem ke rup me kyu dekh rahe hain? Aap apna past to usko batane ke liye aazad hain - magar wah bhi apna past aap ko bataye - ye zaruri to nahi..
Kuchh duri banakar, apne aap se puchhein ki aap ka pyar kitna gehra hai uske liye... Is rishte par gehrayi se sochein aur tab koi faisla lein.
Dhanyawad!

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anshu7895
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Mera pyar bahut gehra h ... Agar gehra na hota to shyd hi uske mann ki baat ko kabi jaan pata... Mjhe sb kuch pata lag jata h jab b wo mere samne hoti h ...uske bina kahe main ye bta skta hu ki uske kahan chot lagi h .... And kya soch rahi h ....
Bas mjhe sach pasand h ...
Can,u imagine srf 1 month k relation me hi wo mere itne close a gayi,..
Usne 2 time khud bola mere se physical relationship bnane ko....ladkiyan sharmati hain is bare me baat krne se...lekin usko kahin b touch kru ...ya kuch b karu.,,usne kabi b discomfort feel nahi kiya....is wajah se mjhe uspe shak hone laga... I don't know where to move now...main phans gaya hu

anshu7895
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Abhi tak us ladki k 4 boyfriend to Maine dhund liye hain...and usne kaboool b kiya ha Ki Han unke sath relationship me thi..ab btao kya karu??

bagadbilla
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chod de..if u don't trust her////.....it is harsh but baad me problem hoega usse pehle soch le kya karna hai

moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello anshu7895,

Kisi bhee rishte ki neev hai pyar, aapsi viswash, aue ek dusre liye respect. Jhoot bola, baate chupana ek swasth lakshan ki neeshani nahi hai.
Aaap dono ke becch jo bhee matbhed hain unhe baat cheet ke zariye suljhane ki koshish kijiye. Saath hee ek mutual understanding ke saath aage kya karna hai us par vichar kijiye.
https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships

All the best!

Kiran Ki Rai.