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Posted by zkhan

I have a gf. We both started as our relationship after confessing everything about our past. And we found each other to be comfortable with that . Recently she confessed that she made sexual relation with a guy just bcoz she found him attractive and no commitment was there, just before committing with me.
I got hurt very badly after hearing this and can't get out of this.

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moderator Bombay Sapphire
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hat's the thing with Casual sex. It just happens. BUT of course you must be very upset - you have every reason to be.
So now its really between you both - do you want to continue this relationship - putting all this away - OR is it a deal breaker for you
Id say, take some time off to assess yourself and your frame of mind - and then go ahead. Give her also some time to think if she has some other goals and motivation - may help everyone.
Also - do find the right words to express your sentiments, without creating too much of a scene.
https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/casual-sex-myths-and-facts-exposed