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Posted by Anonymous

I'm virgin , & nervous to have sex though I had a chance... How can I overcome it?

moderator Mod_Satya

Being nervous is OK. But dont stop just because of that! To begin with, ask couple of questions to yourself:

Are you nervous, because you feel it is uncharted territory?


You think you are not ready for it yet?

This could be important considerations. You must be at least 16 to give consent; also physically and emotionally, you have to be ready for sex and its implications. You could learn more about first time sex, if you think you need more information.

OR are you nervous because of your partner? Did he make you unsure of yourself? Are you under some pressure to say YES to sex? Do you think that you must meet some "standards" during sex? Some kind of performance anxiety? Are you worried as to what it might lead to?

You must discuss these issues (hypothetical as of now) with trusted friends or with us at Lovematters.

Read excellent resource on this: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/making-love

Thanks for sharing your thoughts with LM..

Keep talking!


just call me

moderator Bombay Sapphire

That is NOT possible Kalu. Thanks for writing.


Do it as early as possible or else u will be virgin only

moderator Gulutips

Its good to let a person decide whether she/ he wants to have sex or remain a"virgin" mackbeast. All the best.


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moderator Kiran Ki Rai

Hello Arpitkumar1,

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