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Posted by rajkumar98

Mam aaj mere ko ek phone aya unknown number se pta chala ki wo mere ek frnd ki gf hai wo boht hi depressed thi kyoki mere frnd ki aaj hi marriage hai usne mujhe btaya ki wo uske sath realionship mei thi last 15 year se wo boht ro rhi thi usne bataya ki usne boht paisa apne bf ke upar kharch kiya last week mei bhi usne uspe boht expenss kiye usne apni sari savings uspe luta di ab wo apne paise usse kaise vapis le sakti hai any suggestion

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उससे बोलो की लड़के की शादी में जाकर जी भर के खा ले। थोडी रिकवरी हो जाएगी

moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello rajkumar98,

Wqai bahut dukh hua sunkar dost. Hum samjh sakte hain ki unke liye yeh phase kitna mushqil hog jo unke BF ne kiya woh bahut bada viswashghaat hai.
Lekin ab shayd kuch ho iske asaar nazar nahi arahe. Jaha tak paison ki baat hai toh iski bhi umeed nahi lag rahee ki agar woh unse iske bare mein kahein toh woh paise wapis karenge. Jiski wajah yeh hai ki jo insaan ek hafte pehle tak unke paise kharch karwa raha tha aaj kisi aur se shaadi kar chuka hai isse samjh araha hai ki unhe inke kharch huye paison ya is 15 saal ke rishte ki garima ka koi bhi khyal hoga.

Chote-mote kharch toh nahi lekin agar kisi badi cheez par bahut moti rakam ya koi udhaar bakaya hai toh yeh unhe koi email/message kar yeh baat keh sakti hain. Lekin iske liye inhe bahut strong banna hoga kyunki ho sakta hai woh iske liye mana kar dein ya isse inkaar kar dein.

Iske allawa yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki jo hua usse bhool kar zindgi mein aage badhein aur ise ek sabak ki tarah lein. Unhe bahut himmat aur sahas hamari taraf se. Yeh padh sakte hain aap:
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/my-bf-took-my-money-and...
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/getting-ove...
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-...

All the best!

Kiran Ki Rai.