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Posted by MRSUJIT

Mam hum ek problem me hai
Ye meri gf me baare me hai

Humara rista 4 saal se uper ka hai
Pahile hum dono khus the
Jaisa agar hum kuch kahte to wo karti thi
Jaise ki normal chije utho jaao khana khao
Ya jo bhi aisi chije

Us time kabhi agar hum usse waise picture bolte to bhi deti thi

Lekin 6 month se uske me bahut badlaw aaye hai
Wo chidchidi jaisi ho gyi hai
Kuch bhi bolte to mana kar deti hai sidhe
Wajah puche hai mana karne ki to aise hi nhi karenge to nhi karenge

Pahili baar start huaa jab usse bole photo çhahiye
To boli nhi humko dar lagta hai kahi kuch. To humne se bola koi baat nhi dar lagta laazmi hai to hum chhod diye photo ko leke bolna

Phir khane ko leke jab bole khao jaao to bolti nhi khayenge
Kyu nhi khaogi
Aise hi

Pahile song sunati thi bolne par
Ab bolti nhi sunayenge
Puche koi problem hoto batao
Bolti aise hi

Phir ab 15 din pahile usko dekhne ka man tha bole photo dena apna normal boli nhi hai
Bole ok to click karke do
Bol rhe baad me denge naxt day bole yaar ek photo click karke nhi. De paa rhi
Koi problem hoto batao

To bolti nhi denge
Bole kyu

Bol rhi aise hi

Bolte hai jaao khana kha lo to bolti nhi khayenge
Bolte kyu to bolti aise hi nhi khayenge

Ab ye aisi hi ka silsila har chij me ho gya hai kuch bhi bol dete to nhi karenge aise hi

Usse bole agar tumko humse koi problem hoto batao clear
Bolti kii problem nhi hai. Bus aise hi

Nhi baat karna to batao
Bolti kyi nhi karna
Koi aur pasand to batao
Bolti nhi koi pasand nhi
Humko chhodna hai to batao
Bolti nhi yaar

Usse puche kya chahti ho batao to bol rhi mera jo man karega wahi karenge
Apne marji se rahenge

Boli humko bus aapse baat karni hai
Lekin koi baat nhi manni hai

Kya kre hum help kijiye

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MRSUJIT puttar,
Woh teri gf hai beta. Kathputli nahi. Koi aur ladki uski jagah hoti to woh bhi chid jaati - yaa tujhse break-up kar leti abhi tak!
Tum apni gf to khana khane ko bologe to woh khayegi - yeh kaisa rule hai? ! Aisa nahi hota !
Uska jab mann hoga woh khayegi na!
Usko bolna he kyu yeh sab!
Bilkul galat hai!
Yeh to bilkul purane zamane main rehte ho kya beta! Purane zamane main bi aise koi nahi karta hoga!
Woh ek insaan hai!
Agar koi tumko bolo - chalo utho - khana kaho - aj so jao, ab jag jao - ab photo bhejo, ab yeh karo, ab woh karo - tumhe bhi kuch din achha lagega uske baad tum bhi chid jaoge!
Usko jab bhookh lagegi woh apne aap khana kha legi.
Aur usko tum pe trust hoga to woh tumko photo bhej degi - nahi hoga to nahi bhejegi! Yeh sach main uski marzi hai!
Usko tum jitna force karoge woh utna tum se door jayegi!
So please please please - usse sorry bolo agar apne rishte ko bachana chahte ho!
Usko fir se kabhi foto bhejne ke liye ya koi bhi kaam karne ke liye MAT BOLO.
Yeh uski life hai! Uski zindagi - TUM USKO CONTROL NAHI KAR SAKTE - Aur na he control kakre rakhnna pyar hai - yeh pagalpan hai beta!

Solution kya hai?

Sab se pehle - Apni ego hatao.

Usko dost ke tarah treat karo - tum apne doston se kya aise baat karte ho? Kya unko aise control karte ho? Ki yeh karo, woh karo, yeh bhjeo - woh bhejo? Nahi na? Control karna pyar nahi hai! Pyar to dosti hai - ek doosre ko azaadi dena hai - ek doosre ko help karna aur ek doosre ki khushi main khhush hona hai.

So aaj ke baad please yeh sab band karo. Uski suno - sir uski bat sunno aur pyar bhai baat karo - uspe hukam mat chahlo - usko jo karna hoga woh ek adult hain, samajhdaar hai - khana khud se kha sakti hai - tum nahi bhi kahoge to khayegi na! Uska pet hai. Bhookh lagegi to khayegi.

Aur woh photos dene main comfortable nahi hai - tum please mat maango. Ek doosre se video call normally kar sakte ho. Ya fir mil sakte ho. Agar woh bhi chahe to! Lekin koi bhi ladki apni persoanl photos share karne mein comfortable nahi hoti - to baar baar usse fotos maangna band karo! Agar kabhi uska mann hoga to woh kar degi. Nahi bhi karegi to its ok! Yeh uski marzi hai. Uski respect karo. Hukam mat chalao pls! Control karna pyar nahi hai. Tum jo kar rahe woh pyar nahi hai. Saccha Pyar kaise hota hai - yeh padho - https://lovematters.in/hi/what-is-true-love

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