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Posted by sanisingh

mam mai bhabi ki sister se pyar krta hu hum logo ki bhut baat hoti thi hum log sath bhi rahe lekin kuch month phle usne bataya ki uska koi bf h or uska koi kam ho to mujh se krne ko khati h lekin jb pyaar ki khtha hu to bo mujhse khti h mai tumse pyar nahi krti or mai sahi nahi hu bo uske sath relation me bhi rh chuki h mai usko bhut pyar krne lga hu bo bhi sath rhna chahati h lekin baat baat pr dhamki dene lagti h ki mai tumse pyar nahi krti hu tumhari life me bhut aaye gi mai us layak nahi hu kuch mai khata hu to imotional ho jati h khati h dost ban kr ke raho ab baat bhi bhut km krti h or bhut jaldi phones kt kr deti h kuch pochu to baat tal deti h kya kro kaise samjhao hum usse sadi bhi krna chahate h

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moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Dost sanisingh1467,

Aapka sawal hamne padha aur samjha bhi. Toh dost sab padhne ke baad ek baat toh clear hai ki unki taraf se woh baat nahi hai jo aap aap unke liye dill mein liye hauye hain. Woh khud bata chuki hain ki unka ek BF hai. Aap keh rahe hain"mai usko bhut pyar krne lga hu bo bhi sath rhna chahati h lekin baat baat pr dhamki dene lagti h ki mai tumse pyar nahi krti hu"

Agar woh khud yeh keh rahee hain toh iske baad koi gunjaish hee nahi bachti dost siwaye iske ki aap bhi unki marzi maanei is baat ko yahan khatam karein. Jahan tak baat hai unke BF ke kaam karne ki toh yeh aapko sochna hai ki aap yeh kyun kar rahe hain, ya yeh aap kab band karna chahte hain. Lekin isliye ki woh ek din maan jayengi unke liye favors karte jana aapko shayd kewal dukh hee dega.

Umeed hai aapko madd mili hai, agar kuch kehna chahte hain toh likhiye.
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships

Thanks!

Kiran Ki Rai.
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lekin mam mai un se baat krna bnd kr deta hu to bo khne lgti h ki tum bhi nahi samjhte hum ko or bo usse jayda baat nahi krti lekin kuch dino phle bhut jhagda bhi huaa un dono me hum log sath rahe or bhut krib bhi aa gaye the bo kas ke hug kr leti kiss bhi kr leti h jb unko koi problem hoti h to hum se hi share krti h chahe personal ho ya koi bhi ho mujh se uske bare me kuch nahi chupati h or koi bhi baat ho hum se poch ke hi krti h jb unka bf kabhi kabhi bhut jayda mentally torcher krta h to bo uska kam krne ko khne lgti h hum mna bhi kr dete h bo bhut jaldi emotional ho jati h isi bjha ka bo faida uthata h bo bhut torcher krta h uski hi bjha se bo mere pass rahne lgi aake phle bo akele rh ke padai krti thi lekin unka bf presan krta tha mentally to bo mere khne pr mere sath rhne lgi or ab bhi hum log sath hi rahte h bo ye baat kh deti h ki pyar nahi krti fr ek dm se khti h naraj ho gaye tum mai ignor kro to khne lgti h tum nahi samjhoo ge to kaun samje ga mai kuch samjh nahi paa raha hu ki mujhe kya krna chahiye ek trf hum log sath rhte h or bhut closelly bhi h lekin ye baate bo phone pr chat krte h tb khti h ki tumse pyar nahi krte jbunka bf mentelly torcher krta h tb bo aaisa bolene lgti h pass me rahti h to mujh se bhut pyar dikhati h bachcho ki trh bhut jayda or bo chahati h ki mai manao unko aap bataye mai is sb ko kya samjho jb bhi unka bf mere bare me kuch galt bolta h to bo usse ld jati h or un dono ki ab to bhut km baate hoti h bo jayadatr baat hum se hi krti lekin imotional ho ke dikhata h to ye pighal jati h kya kro inko samjhao or inkin mom ne kaha ki beta ye kisi se jayada baat na kre mom ko pta h unki ki hum dono sath rhte h kya kro jisse hum dono khus rahe pass rhti h to khus rhti h kio tb mai sath hota hu or ghar aate h to inko akela feel hone lgta h tbhi ye ulta bolne lgti h .khti h chalo yaha se

moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello sanisingh,

Kuch baton ka sawal khud se poochiye aap woh aapse pyar karne se mana karti hain, lekin jab aap door hone ki koshish karte hain toh woh wapis bula leti hain, phir bhi kisi bhi rishte mein ane se inkaar hai (kyunki kai baar ho jata hai ki hamein logo se pyar nahi toh shayd unki adaat ho jati hai).Unka koi BF jo unhe mentally pareshan kar raha hai, lekin phri bhi unke kaam aapse karwati hain, Woh unke saath rishte mein lekin aap dono bhi kiss wagehra kar lete hain-Toh aap khud se poochiye ki in sab mein itni saari confusion na kewal unhone balki aapne bhi create ki hui hai. Aise baat nahi banti hai dost.

Aap jo pooch rahe hain 'kya kro jisse hum dono khus rahe' toh iska jawab aapko pata hai ki woh pehle hee kisi aur rishte mein hain. Isliye is charcha ko aur jo aapne likha hai usko bhi dobara padhiye aur ek sahi nirnya lijiye apne liye. Na samjh araha ho ki karna kya hai toh ek break lijiye in sab baton se phir sochiye ki aap kya chahte hain.

Tab tak ke liye is website par pyar, confusion ke bare mein kaafi kuch hai padhne ke liye padhiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/will-my-best-friend-lov...

All the best!

Kiran Ki Rai.
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lekin mam mai un se baat krna bnd kr deta hu to bo khne lgti h ki tum bhi nahi samjhte hum ko or bo usse jayda baat nahi krti lekin kuch dino phle bhut jhagda bhi huaa un dono me hum log sath rahe or bhut krib bhi aa gaye the bo kas ke hug kr leti kiss bhi kr leti h jb unko koi problem hoti h to hum se hi share krti h chahe personal ho ya koi bhi ho mujh se uske bare me kuch nahi chupati h or koi bhi baat ho hum se poch ke hi krti h jb unka bf kabhi kabhi bhut jayda mentally torcher krta h to bo uska kam krne ko khne lgti h hum mna bhi kr dete h bo bhut jaldi emotional ho jati h isi bjha ka bo faida uthata h bo bhut torcher krta h uski hi bjha se bo mere pass rahne lgi aake phle bo akele rh ke padai krti thi lekin unka bf presan krta tha mentally to bo mere khne pr mere sath rhne lgi or ab bhi hum log sath hi rahte h bo ye baat kh deti h ki pyar nahi krti fr ek dm se khti h naraj ho gaye tum mai ignor kro to khne lgti h tum nahi samjhoo ge to kaun samje ga mai kuch samjh nahi paa raha hu ki mujhe kya krna chahiye ek trf hum log sath rhte h or bhut closelly bhi h lekin ye baate bo phone pr chat krte h tb khti h ki tumse pyar nahi krte jbunka bf mentelly torcher krta h tb bo aaisa bolene lgti h pass me rahti h to mujh se bhut pyar dikhati h bachcho ki trh bhut jayda or bo chahati h ki mai manao unko aap bataye mai is sb ko kya samjho jb bhi unka bf mere bare me kuch galt bolta h to bo usse ld jati h or un dono ki ab to bhut km baate hoti h bo jayadatr baat hum se hi krti lekin imotional ho ke dikhata h to ye pighal jati h kya kro inko samjhao or inkin mom ne kaha ki beta ye kisi se jayada baat na kre mom ko pta h unki ki hum dono sath rhte h kya kro jisse hum dono khus rahe pass rhti h to khus rhti h kio tb mai sath hota hu or ghar aate h to inko akela feel hone lgta h tbhi ye ulta bolne lgti h .khti h chalo yaha se