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Anjani Ojha
Posted by Anjani Ojha

Mam mai ma papa se naraj hokar other cast ke ladki se sadi kar liya hu us samy kuch samjh me nhi arha tha family kahti hai ki use chor do mai kya karu

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moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Anjani Ojha,

Shaadi kar li hai, ab saath mein reh rahe hain? Toh ab chodne ka sawal nahi hai dost. Achanak aisa kya hua-woh toh pehle bhi mana kar rahe they, abhi bhi? Aapki partner ka kya kehna hai? Sthithi poori likhiye taaki sahi salah dee ja sake.Yeh bhi padhiye:

https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/my-parents-wo...
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/i-like-him-but-hes-of-a...

Thanks!

Kiran Ki Rai.
Anjani Ojha
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Bhai o kya bole o pregnant hai es lockdaun me mai delhi fasa hua tha family se koi call nhi kiya ki kaise ho apna family kaise chala rhe ho or call bhi kabhi aye to darect bolte hai ki use chor do ya mujhe samjh me nhi arha hai ki kya karu

moderator Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Anjani Ojha,

Hum samjh sakte hain, situation mushqil hai. Toh dost aap ghar walon se sampark kar rahe hain kyunki aapko unka is sthithi mein support chahiye, saath chahiye? Lekin yeh toh aap jante hain, samjhte hain ki woh iske bilkul against hai-woh garbhvati hain yeh janne ke baad bhi toh phir unse aapko asha kyun hai!! Jo bhi ho is haal aur haalat mein aap unka saath nahin chode saktey - umeed hai ki yeh to aap bhali bhaanti samjhtey hain.
Unki family kahan hai - kya veh bhi kisi kism ki santwana nahin de rahe? Saaf shabdon mein - kya aapko is waqt unki zaroorat hai? Kisliye? ab tak aap khan eh rahe they aur ghar kaise chal raha hai? yadi sab kuch vyvasthit hai - to aap dono is waqt ghar waalon ko kyun talash rahe hain? Kiss umeed se? .

Yeh samya ghabrane ka nahi hai. Agar aap dono yeh nirnya le chuke hain ki aapko yeh pregnancy continue karni hai toh ab aap dono ki iski zimmedari lene ka samya agyaa hai. Hum asha karte hain aap kuch kaam waghera kar rahe hain, ek sthai nahi toh suvidhajank, sahi-jagah par reh rahe hain. Kya koi dost ya unka koi jaan-pehchan ka aap dono ki is samya kuch madd kar sakta hai? In sab baton ke bare mein aap dono bethiye aur khoob ache se vichar kijiye.

Iske allawa, agar pregnancy ko jyada samya nahi hua hai aur agar aapko lagta hai ki aap abhi is pregnancy ko sambhaal paane ki sthithi mein nahi hain toh is par bhi aapsi vichaar kijiye. Jiske liye yeh links zarur padh lijiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/abortion...
https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/medical-...

Jab stithi sambhal jaye - aap dono aur mazboot ho jaayein - jab bhi - to phir koshish keejiye - abhi apna saara zore - apne aap ko aur apni wife ko comfortable aur swasth rakhne mein lagaiye. Baaki baad mein. Lekin jo bhi nirnya lein, jaldi se jaldi soch samjh kar aapsi sehmati se lein. Unki bhi zarur sun lijiye.

Phir doabra wapis likhein jald hee!

Kiran Ki Rai.