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Posted by Manish123#

Mam mera naam manish h or m up ka rhny bala hu . M apny se 3 saal bdi ldki se pyaar krta hu bo bhi mujhse pyaar krti h . Hm hindu h or caste obc h . Or woh mere pardada ke do bete thy . Ek jo mere papa ke daddy thy or dusre jo mere taya k daddy . Jo taai ji h mere unke sgy bhai ki beti h ! Bo ldki. To mam kya meri shaadi unsy ho skti h and meri job bhi lg jaaegi 6 months ya 1 saal me tbh tk usee rishty aarhy h bo kese rokyy or usky papa mmi ko kese mnaau. Please help krna answer dekr

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Dost Manish123#,

Kuch batein, yeh jo rishta aap bata rahe hain yeh kai pariwaron mein bahut karibi nazar se dekha jaa sakta hai toh kai mein nahi-Yeh aapko samjhna hai ya keh lijiye pata lagana hai ki yeh rishta aapke pariwar mein kitna karibi hai aur ismein shaadi ka sambandh ban sakta hai ya nahi! Aap chahein toh ismein ghar ke kisi aise vyatki se bhi madd le sakte hain jo bahrose ke kabil ho aur aapko salah de sake ya guide kar sake aur aapka saath bhi de sake. Kyunki ho sakta hai ki aapke aur unke pariwaar wale aap dono ko bhai-behan ki nazar se hee dekhein.

Ismein sabse eham baat mat miss kijiye ki aap jinse pyaar karte hain ismein unki sehmati bhi zaruri hai. Ya keh lijiye anivarya hai. Koi bhi kadam uthane se pehle unse unki marzi, iss par unki salah le lijiye tabhi aage badhiye.
Pairwaar raazi ho ya na ho se jyada unka raazi hona zaruri hai.

Age ki jagah tak baat hai 3 saal age gap samanya baat hai issse koi farq nahi padna chahiye agar aap dono pyar karte hain toh.

Yeh bhi padh kar dekh lijiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/is-it-ok-to-m...
https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/inter-caste-marriages-top-five-facts

Kuch kehna ho toh phir likhein.

All the best!

Kiran Ki Rai.