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Posted by Loveat30

Mam meri age 30 years hai. Or main ek ladki se pyar krta hu uski age 40 yrs hai. Ham dono unmarried hai.. Kya mujhe iske liye ghar main mata pita se bat krni chahiye. Kis tarah se unke aage apni bat rakhu kyoki hamare beech 10 yrs ka age gap hai. Kya dikkate after marriage aa sakti hai

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Dear Loveat30,
Toh dost, 10 saal ka age gap bada age gap mana jata hain, Aap ke ghar pariwar mein is baat ko leke kaafi charcha ho saktee hain, Yadi aap dono baccha chhahte hain to bacche ke liye jaldi koshish shuru karni pad saktee hain, yadi aap nahi chahte to ye bhi charcha ka vishay ban sakta hain.
Shaadi ek barabari ka rishta hota hain, isiliye, aap dono ke beech yadi acchi understanding ho, ek dusre ko aap dono aachi tarah se jaan chuke hain to age gap se koi dushprabhav to nahi hain. Bus samaj / ghar pariwar ki nazro ko, aap dono kaise nipat sakte hain, iska soch vichar karna avyashak hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/in-love-with-an-older-man

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Ham dono ek business main partner bhi hai. Abhi hamne ek dusre se alag ho gaye hai. Pr business sath main hai. Hamara aapsi communication dusre partner ke dwara hota hai. Usne kahi or shadi ka faisla kr liya hai. Pr main abhi bhi duvidha main hu ki ghar pr bat kru. Ya kahi or shadi kru. To business main ham dono kaise sahaj ho jaye. Ya main ghar pr uski age kam bta kr bat kru..

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Kya unhone shaadi ka faisla is liye keey ahai ki aap ghar pe baat nahin kar paa rahe?
Loverat30, yadi aap dono ne kuch samay ""off"" leeya hai to iska bhi phayeda uthana better hoga - pata hai kyun? taaki aapko apnee feelings ka muaina karne ka mauka mile aur unhe bhi - kya sochtey hain aap? ki aap dono thoda sa distance kar ke sochiye apni stithi ko , apni life ko.
Kuch baatein
1. umr kum bata kar shaadi kar lene se kiska phayeda? Ki ghar waale object nahin karenge? so yadi woh object karne waale hain, to kisi bhi baat pe kar saktey han, aap kya karne waale hain, yeh bataiye - kahin aapki is Mummy Papa waale attitude se veh darr rahee hain? Ya phir ghabraa rahe hon ki aap nibha nahin payenge?
Badi umr ki mahila se pyaar karne se pehle to aapne ghar walon ki ijaazat nahin dhoondhee to ab kyun.
jhooth ka sahra yahan lena itna achcha nahn, unke maata pita bhi to hongey - yad unhe bhi yeh kum umr waali baat achchi na lage - to aap dono kya kar payenge?
yeh bhi ki yadi unki shaadi ho bhi jaati hai to aap dono ka buiness mein saath reh pana bhi kathin ho jayega - yes?
yeh bh soch lena.
aap dono shadi kahin aur ki to aise baat kar rahe hain jaise ki resturant badal rahe hon - ek jageh ka khaana theek nahin to doosre ka mahaul - aap ek doosre ki ore kitne prtibadh hain, iski svayum soch aur jaanch kar lejiye aur sirf tab hee aage badhiye - aap dono ka pyaar aasan nahin.
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/relationship-problems/f...

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Kya ghar main sab such bata kr rishte ko aage badana chahiye. Ya dono ko ek dusre se alag hokr aage bad jana chahiye. Mujhe kuch samajh nhi aa raha hai kya kiya jaye. Kyoki abhi ham dono alag ho gaye hai pr main usko bhul nhibpa raha hu.

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Hmm... kuch samy jaane deejiye, Dost - uske baad tay keejiye ki aap dono is rishte k kahan tak le jaana chhatey hain
Yadi baat aage badhtee hai - then un hee se poochiye ki veh kya prefer karengee - ki aap bata dein ya nahin aur yadi baat nilegee to aapki kya bhumika rahegee
Balki, apne aaps e badi umr ki mahila se shaadi karne ka nirnay lene mein - aapki family ka bahut kuch kehna hoga - yes? So uski tayyari aap kya kar rahe hain?
Yeh padh leejiye - apki stithi se bahut mita hai
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/in-love-with-an-older-man