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Posted by Rrks3343

Meri dost k sath 4 sal se relationship me hu...vo muie bhot pyar krti h... Per ab achank 2 month phle go ek ladke k prati attract hone lagi....mai isko leke insecure ho rha hu.... Humne khul k bat ki per ye bat mai bhula nahi pa rha...na chahe k bhi mai uspe shak kr rha hu...

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Rrks3343 bete
main samaj sakti hun ki tumhe bura lag raha hoga. Haan isko bhula pana thoda mushkil ho sakta hai - par beta - ek baat socho - kissi ki aur attract hona ek normal baat hai - ho jata hai kabhi kabhi - relationship main rehte hue bhi - par sab se badi baat yeh hai ki usne tumhe bataya - aur tum dono ne khul ke iss baare main baat ki. Isse better kya hoga ki tum dono ne kitne mature tarike se isko handle kia. Woh chahti to tum se yeh baat chupa bhi sakti thi ya mana kar sakti thi ki woh iss baare main tum se kuch discuss nahi karna chahti hai - lekin usne tum se iss baare main khul ke baat ki - haina? Aur muje yakeen hai ki tum dono kuch conclusion pe bhi pahunche hoge na - mera matlab ki usne bola hoga ki woh ab uss person se contact main nahi rehna chahti ya ab woh issi relationship pe focus karegi? To yeh tunhare upar hai - tum dono ka decision hai ultimately - kya tum dono iss rough patch ke baad bhi relationship ko contiue karna chahte ho? kya woh continue karna chahti hai? aur kya tum usko second chance dena chahte ho? Aur ek aur baat - kal ko ho sakta hai yeh tumhare saath ho - tum bhi ho sakta hai kissi ki taraf attract ho - tum aisi situation main kya karte? kya tum ek aur chance chahoge aur yeh chahoge ki woh bhi is incident ko jaldi bhula ke aage badhe relation main - yaa fir pareshaan rahe - so in baaton pe soch samaj ke vichar raho. Jo bhi faisla lo - usko usmein shaamil karo- https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/relationship-problems/c...

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