Let's Talk Forum


Sex

Posted by Coolezt

My girlfriend took away her virginity by masturbating using her finger in which she suspected blood
Because I do feel nervous whenever I try having sex with her cuz of the way she does cry,so she did that so that I’ll be less worried

But even after since then if we try to have sex she does still feel pain

Have tried sexing her couple of times but still the same
She does feels pain

Coolezt
Answer
moderator love-matters
0

Coolezt puttar,
Durd hone ka ek sabse mehtvpuran karan yeh ho skata hai ki apki partner sex ke liye theek tarah se tyyar hi nahi hui hon. Bete yeh baat bohot achhe se samjh lo aap ki sex karnye ke lieye dono hi partners ko tanavmukat hona bohot hi zaruri hai! Aur dono ka tyyar hona mentally, physically, emotionally bhi bohot zarurui hai.

Ho sakta hai unhe koi darr ho ya doubt, yeh bhi ki who pregnancy se darti hon ya society se? Jo bhi ho shayed who abhi tayyar nahin, pehele yeh sab baatein clear karo aur phir sex ki planning. Sirf ek person ready hai aur doosre nahin, so phir toh koi maza nahin na? Aap samjh rahe hain na mera matlab? isliye make sure ki apki partner in sab cheezon ke liye tayyar hui hain. zara yeh padhiye:
https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts
https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed

Yes yoni bahut choti hoti hai aur lacheele bhi. So Jald baazi mat keejiye, phele finger se try keejiye, koi lubrication use keejye… Lekin apki partner ko bahut hee relaxed rehana hai aur apko bhi is dauran bahut hee support karna hai. Poora ling ek hee baar andar jaaye yeh bilkul zaroori nahin, aur na hee iski rai dee jaati hai. iske barre mein yeh padhiye.
https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts

ALSO - Virginity is a myth. Sab se pehle to yeh samajh lo ki virgin ladki main koi seal nahi hoti jiso break karna hota hai. Virgini ladki main hymen yoni ke andar hoti hai - yoni ke aas pass - hymen se yoni band nahi hoti. Socho agar yoni band hoti - to usmein se periods kaise aate? Period ke time blood kaise aata? So virginity ko break karne jaisa kuch nahi hota! DO read this - https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/virginity/virginity-myths-busted

Auntyji