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Posted by sa1200

My partner reached orgasm the first time he touched me. It happened twice, just by touching me ( I was his first sexual Partner)
But from after that until now for more than 4 month, he never reached orgasm with me and he wouldn't allow me to touch his penis when he is turned on so he could reach orgasm.
We don't have intercourse but foreplay takes 3 hours and still he wont reach orgasm and he won't let me touch him to reach there.
Deos anybody know why he does that?

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sa1200 puttar,
So you mean to say he does not have orgasms at all now? Or is it delaying his orgasm for some time and has it later? You should talk to him and express your concern and ask him why is he doing so. Is it because he is scared that if you touch him, he will ejaculate? Maybe he is embarrassed about what happened the first time? Talk to him and reassure him that it's okay. There is nothing to be ashamed of.

Or some other reason? Please do talk to him and find out. He is the best person to explain this. Also, do read this similar situation of a man who cums when he kisses https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/...