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Posted by SaMir 123456

so babt kuch esa ha relationship ma tha bohot hi toxic relationship 2018 sa problem suru hone lagi fir bat na ho panna ...bohot din ka gafe gafe ma baad bat hona understading 1% ki vi nai tha mujha jo bura laga use humesa sa wohi karna tha firvi 2019 kisi tarha chala gaya 2020 ka begining mavi we broke up bcoz things are not working bhot hi toxic relationship ban chuka tha i fells depreesd, anxient pain and many of things ...so 2020 ma we get sepret uske baad she move very finely..usna har woh chiz kiya jo use karna tha mare aginst har woh kam kiya jo hum nai pasand it gives me so much pain , anxient and many of things maina samhala kisi tarha apna aapko...fir karib breck up 1.2 sal ma baad woh mujha achanak milti ha and suddenly she invited me for her elder sister marrige ceremony hum nai gaya...bcoz i dont want to face her..
and the scene is 28 feb sa woh mujha text, call , whats app kar rahi ha ... bat to karhi sakta ho like this ..mare ek problem ha hum usse jyada dar tak ignore nai kar sakta...and she is like tum galat tha , tum galat ho..i mean we have 4 year relatioship woh kavi samjhi hi nahi..
i fell so much pain for her now i am just kuch thik thak...bt now the things is woh mujha jabarjasti bat kar rahi ha gulti fell karana chahti ha jabki sobkuch ushi na kiya tha..
and etna din ka jo painfull situation the esme maina eye soch liye ab ho eya nahi move on karna hi ha ..or hum karega hi move on
...but now this crusal time she making me weak woh mujha kamjoor bana rahi ha ...she is like she shows me like she just me so much...but those painfull days jo maina suffer kiya ustime usne mujha yaad tak nahi kiya..and she nows shows me a lots of drama and like tum galat tha..
i want to move on ekdam final bt this activities are making me soo weak...kamjoor ho raha hu ma....how can i deal with plz jjust suggest me how can i......plz plz i dont want get back those depreesd days... but ma fir presan ho raha hu plz kaise handle kare ein chizzo ko plz plz help me...

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SaMir 123456 bete
You have to block her. Usko bilkul block kar do apni life se agar move on karna chahte ho. Block from phone, whatsapp, email, facebook, insta...jahan jahan tum ho. Aur apne mann main yeh thaan lo ki KUCH BHI HO JAYE - tum usse Bilkul baat NAHI karoge. APne aap ko thoda strong banao beta. Aise weak hoke kaam nahi chalega. Woh ladki agar tumko gulity feel karane ke liye wapis aa rahi hai - to bilkul accept mat karo. Agar tumhara relationship inta toxic tha - to please bilkul aur time mat do iss relationship ko.
Sab kuch tumhar haath main hai. Woh ladki jaanti hai ki tum weak ho - usko zada der ignore nahi kar sakte - bas woh issi baat ka fayda utha rahi hai. Tum kyu nahi apne mann main thaan lete ki tumko strong banana hai - weak nahi.
Himmat karo. Agar tum mann main thaan loge na ki kuch bhi ho jaye - mujhe usse baat karni he nahi - to sab dheere dheere theek ho jayega. Pehle 1-2 din difficulty aayegi. Lekin fir normal lagega. Aur sukoon bhi milega. Shanti bhi.
Aur yakeen maano - jitna tum uss ladki ko apni safai dene ki koshish karoge - utni baar tum dono baat karoge, mentally tense hoge, kuch haasil nahi hoga. So tumko sampuran roop se usee block karna hai. Ek baar meri baat maan ke to dekho. Ho sake to kissi aur city main job ya padhai ke liye chale jao. Duniya bahut khoobsurat hai - har andhere ke aage ujala hai - tumko apne uss ujale ki taraf jaana hai - na ki fir se andhere ki aur. Koshish to karo- kyunki koshish karne walon ki kabhi haar nahi hoti - haina? All the best! https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/breaking-up...

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