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We are married for 3 months both of us are virgin My wife & i had sex 3-4 times in month or so and i had penetrated her only 2 times without protection and ejaculated inside her once ,we dont want baby now & she had taken i-pill for it.I am worried that we could get std as earlier I had tried many times to penetrate but couldn't do so now after using lubricant it was possible.Pls help
Right Wiseguy - unless either of you already has an STD - you cant get one, with just unprotected sex.
Maybe sh eis under some trauma and hence there is a lack of lubrication , she may be worried, or hasseeld - and hence is not making enough lubrication. Maybe you want to double ensure and reduce the burden by using a condom these days... and getting her body and cycle back - for wich anyways you must use condoms
Try new positions, try exciting stuff - try asking her what she wants...do not worry but use condoms . Have a lovely weekend