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WE R IN RELATION FROM 3 YRS
WE BOTH R VIRGIN
SHE WANTS TO HAVE SEX BT I DNT AS I KNW SHE IS WEEK... ND FIRST TYM SEX WILL HURT HER AND I KNW SHE WONT BEAR THE PAIN ....
AS WE SHARE LONG DISTANCE RELNTSHIP....
OUR NEXT MEETING IS IN VALETINE WEEK....
DNT KNW WHT TO DO....
I think this is a good three year old relationship- and will sustain through whatever you two decide TOGETHER : to have sex or NOT.
A little pain (actually more like discomfort) MAY be expected at the time of first vaginal sex (remember "May be"..). But this can be substantially reduced by foreplay, good use of lubrication - and - sometimes condom too helps in penetration.
But the question is- are you prepared for it? Sex can be major decision and it is perfectly FINE if one of you is not ready and want to postpone. No big deal. Some joint cooking and watching a good movie together may also be a nice way of spending time together on the Valentine's day.. Right?
If you two decide to have sex, consider following useful information:
Happy Valentine's Day to both of you!!