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जिसके द्वारा दर्ज किया गया Awww

Meri ak dost hai
Uska 4 sal pahle ak relationship tha jo wo tod di kyuki uska bf uske sath jyada tochy tochy hota tha
Usne btaya ki wo cheat bhi kr raha tha uske sath

Phr uske bad sab normal chal raha tha hmlog ke bich
Lkn 6 mahine pahle uska birthay tha birthday se 2 month pahle wo mere se phone pe din bhar cll ya msg krti rahti thi aur hmlg ki baat hote rahti thi
Lkn idhar 3 mahine se wo mujhe bahut kam cll krti hai bolti hai ghr me sab log hain baat ni kr skti

Lkn wo facebook pe bahut logo se baat krte rahti hai
Aur ak ladka hai jisko wo din me 5-6 bar cll krti thi aur usi time mujhe bolti thi ki uske aas paas bhaiya di hain isliye mere se baat ni kr paa rhi
Wo ladka usase 8-9 sal bda hai

Aur mujhe ye jaan kr bahut bura lag raha aur gussa aa rha
Uski apni life hai kch bhi kre but mere se jhuth kyu boli wo ki bhaiya di ke karan baat ni kr paa rhi

Jbki roj us ladke se baat krti hai
Aur mere liye uske paas time ni hai
Aur aisa bhi ni hai ki mujhe bilkul cll ni krti krti hai but ab kam krti hai jab kaam hota hai tb

Main usko bahut accha dost manta tha
But ab mujhe pta ni kyu aisa lag raha ki uske liye main timepaas hun aur wo mujhe bewkuf bna rhi hai
Hmlg bchpan ke dost the
But ab man kr rha baat band kr du usase
Bahut confused hun... Kya kru

उत्तर
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Kbhi kbhi to lag rah bta dun usko ki mujhe sab pta hai
But soch raha hun ki wo sochegi maine uske privacy pe hmla kiya hai

Phir ye bhi lag raha ki main hin jyada soch raha

Lkn wo ladka bhi to usase bahut bda hai kahin usne meri dost ko use kiya to
Kyuki ye to din bhar cll krte rahti hai
Aur puchne pe bta bhi ni rahi ki baat krti hai wo kisi dusre ladke se

मॉडरेटर Gulutips
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Dear Awww,
Dost, aapki post se zahir hain ki unhe aapse ilava aur bhi dost hain aur aap ko call kum karne ki wajeh aap jaan chuke hain. Toh bus.. jaise ki aap keh rahe hain.. ki unki apni life hain.. so jo nirnay weh le rahi hain, sahi-galat unke apne nirnay hain. Aap ko dukh aapse jhoot bolne ka hain na? Toh dost, is ke aap kya kar sakte hain, yeh to unki galati hain, ki weh aapko sach nahi bata saki. .. Ab aap kya karna chahenge.. ? Kya unhe aapka ek dost banakar rakhna chahenge? ya ek doori banakar, move on karna?
Yeh aapko hi tay karna hoga dost. Itminann se soch lijiye.. https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-brea...
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/why-your-br... in dono links ko aap padhiye isse shayad ache sujhav milein.

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Waise Mai ye samjhta Hoon ki aap ko us se is subject p khul k baat karni chahiye agar aap k man m ya us ke liye Kya feelings hai aur us ke man me aap ko lekar Kya hai man m kuch bhi ho to wo saaf ho sake aur asliyt pata lag sake dost Meri y apni vyktigat ray hai aur aap us ki baato ko pakdne ka pryaas jarror kare.

मॉडरेटर Gulutips
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Rajat, aapki point bhi acchi hai dost.. Shayad Awww is par bhi vichar kar sakte hain.. All the best.

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Uska phone lgatar busy rah rha hai...
Maine kal phir se pucha phir usne bola ki wo. Ni krti kisi se baat aur na usko ab iss chakar me padna hai...
Pta ni kyu ni bta rahi isase pahle to sab btati thi aur abhi bhi sab bta rahi ki facebook pe kya msg aata hai ghr me kya ho rha ye sab
sirf us ladke ke bade me ni bta rahi...

Kya kru..man bahut ajib ho raha..
Aisa lag raha dhire dhire main usase dur ho raha hun aur wo kisi aur ke paas jaa rahi...

Agar usko usi se baat krni hai aur usi ke sath rahna hai to phir mere se baat kyu krti hai wo, mujhe chhor kyu ni rahi...
I hate this

मॉडरेटर Gulutips
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Haan Aww, Mushkil stithi to hain. aap samjh to gaye hain ki weh aapse dur ja rahi hain.. weh aapko kyun chchod nahi deti , yeh to keh paana mushkil hain.. aur ye jaane ki aapko shayad zarurat bhi nahi.. Bus ye rishta ab waisa rishta nahi raha hain.. ye samjhna zaroori hain dost. Haan kathin stithi to hain.. lekin kya karein. kuch rishte ek makam par aake ruk se jate hain. https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/top-reasons..., ise padhiye. Take care.

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Ab to mere phone me pade uski photo jo main roj dekha krta tha aaj wo bhi del krne ka man kr raha..
Itna moh bhang hoga kisi se socha ni tha kbhi

मॉडरेटर Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Awww ,

Dekhiye dost koi bhi rishta usmein pyaar, anand, bharosa ek doore par atoot viswaash hona chahiye-Jahan yeh batein nahi hai wahan us rishte ka koi laabh nahi hai. Philhaal woh kuch keh rahee hain, aap kuch keh rahe hain. Unhone khud toh kabhi nahi kaha ki woh kisi aur ke saath hain, lekin aap lagataar yeh mane bethein hai ki woh kisi aur ke saath hain. Isliye khud ko is sthithi ko thoda samya dijiye-Jitna bhi aap lena chahte hain.

Uske baad dobara ek baar koshish kijiye. Phir bhi wahi sthithi hai toh aage badhiye-Zindgi mein us jagah ruk jana jahan viswash nahi kewal sandeh hai aapke liye sahi nahi.

Kuch samya lijiye-Baad mein wapis likhiyega hamein.
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/happy-relationships/san...

All the best!

Kiran Ki Rai.
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Finally hmlg ak dusre ko block kar diye..
Aaj phir us se try kiya baat krne but wahi uska roj ka drama....
Uska behavior badalte jaa rha tha kuch bhi bolo to bolti ham tumse bad me bat krte hain...
Ajib hai kaisi kaisi ladkiya hoti hai
Dhokebaz hoti hain sab ke sab.... Just hate all girls.....
Gali dene man kr rha but ak time me wo meri sbse achhi dost thi...
Ladkiyan aisa kyu krti hain
Kya ham sirf timepaas hain unke liye

मॉडरेटर Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Awww,

Kuch batein dost jo  ab kehna chahenge sgayed yeh sahi samay hoga. Aapne kaha tha"But soch raha hun ki wo sochegi maine uske privacy pe hmla kiya hai" Toh jee haan kisi ki privacy bhang karna, unki jaankari ke bina unke niji social media, phone ityadi use karna jo aapne kiya woh jayiz nahin hai- nyay nahin hai. umeed kartey hain ki ab aap yeh sab nahin kar rahe hain ,

 Ab aap keh rahe hain "Gali dene man kr rha but ak time me wo meri sbse achhi dost thi" - shyed ek aam pratikriya - gusse mein. Amm hai lekin phir se, nyaya nahin. Lekin kyun aap khud keh rahe hain woh aapki dost thin, so us heee baat ka maan rkhiye. Gaali-apshabd bilkul bhi swiakriya nahin - bhale hee aapk kitnee bhi chot ya dhakka laga ho! Aap samjh chuke ki woh aage badh chuki hain. Isliye is baat ko yahi khatam kijiye, aage badhiye. Life bahut lambi hai - bahut se log aa yenge aur jo aaye hain - woh kuch achca kuch bura de ke hee jaatey hain - kyun na achche ki yaad ke jaaye, aur buri baatein - maaf ki jaayein. 

Aapna dhyan rakhiye!

https://lovematters.in/hi

Thanks!

Kiran Ki Rai.
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Main use bahut miss kr rha hun...
Man ni lag rha pdhne me...
Aisa lag rha ki kash wo aake mna le mujhe....
Bahut miss kr rha....
Bhulna chahta hun usko...
Aap meri. Madat kar skti hain kya?
Please do me a fvr...

मॉडरेटर Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Awww,

Hum samjh sakte hain dost lekin bus itna kar sakte hain ki aapko samjha sakte hain yahan. Khud ko shaant kijiye please. Yeh lekh padhiye aapko madd milegi:
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/recovering-...

Take care dost!

Kiran Ki Rai.
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Achha ak last question
Uske bare me maine aapko btaya ni

Meri dost kahin bimar to ni hai...
Kyuki pichle kch dino sebwo ghar me bhi kam bat kr rhi hai..
Use hotal management krna tha but uske ghar wale uska admission ni kra rhe... Aur isliye wo bolti hai main frustrat hun...
'Life jhund hai' ''ghar se bhag jaungi'
'sab matlabi hain'aisa aisa bahut bar word use kr chuki hai pichle kch mahino me...
Fb pe baat krne kebare me pucha tha to boli thora entertain hone ke liye bat kr leti hun unknown se....

Main aapko ye sab isliye bta rha hun kyuki abhi shushant singh rajpoot ka case samne aaya hai...

Aur usko leke media and doctr log bahut bat kr rhe....
So main soch raha kahin wo bimar to. Ni hai....

Wo sirf ak hin bande ko lgatar text aur cll kiye ja rhi hai.... Wo is se pahle bhi bat krti thi but kam, lekin ab din bhar usi ko cll krte rahti hai aur na mujhe cll krti hai na kisi aur ko..
Wo unknwn ko jyada cll krne lgi hai aaj kal...
Kahin aisa to ni ki main family frnd hun isliye wo mujhe ignr kr rhi thi...

Kya use jarurat hai meri ya wo thk. Hai aur sach me wo move kr chuki hai....
Aapko bta dun ki. Main sirf dost tha, boyfriend ni....
So guide me....

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Mujhe lgta hai wo sach me mere se bore ho gyi thi, aur us bande se baat krke usko acchha feel hota hoga isliye usi se bat krti hai wo..

But dar rha hun kahin uske man me kch dusra to ni hai, kahin wo ghar ke situation ke karan aisa to ni kr rhi....

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Sorry
Main kch jyada soch raha uske bare me...
Mujge lgta mujhe khudko time dena chahiye ab bina uske bare me sochhee

Sorry aaplg ko bar bar distrab krne ke liye...

मॉडरेटर Bombay Sapphire
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iska kya matlab hai Aww?
""Wo sirf ak hin bande ko lgatar text aur cll kiye ja rhi hai.""
Hin kya?
Veh ek tareh se aapse door ho gayee hain? aapko lagta hai ki veh koi risks le rahee hain? kiss kism ki?
Aww-aap unse ab waapis aane ki umeed to nahin kar rahe na? to phir aapka role kewal yeh hai ki aap unhe unke possible khatron se aaga karien aur bas utna hee... yadi veh sunna chhatee hai to - yadi veh aapko call kartee hain to.
Hume disturb karne se mat hichkichaiye. Lekin yes - aapko apne aap ko manage karna hai - yeh to sabse zaroori hai. Please ab unhe rehne deejiye - aur apne aap per focus keejiye
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/its-time-for-self-care-...

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Wo 2-3 din se phr mere se baat kr rhi hai jaise pahle krtinthi...
Jra sa bhi uske behavior se ni lag rha ki. Hmlg lade the aur hmlg ki dosti. Lagbhag tutne wali thi...
Mtlab aise kaise ho gya..
Mujhe ye puchna tha ki kya main uspe bharosa kar skta hun waps
Dil bol rha ki han bharosa kar kyuki wo preshan thi isliye tere sath aisa kiya
Aur dimag bol rha ki wo mere sath abhi bhi khel rhi hai
Uski aadat hai mere se hmesha kch na kch mangte rahti hai...
Lekin bich me usne mangna bhi band kr diya tha main puchta bhi tha to mna kr deti thi but
Jabse wo thk hui hai wapas se waise hin bat bhi kr rhi aur kal se jid ki hui hai ki mujhe chocolate chahiye...
Main smjh ni paa rha ki.. Kis wale pe bharosa kru jisne mujhe blk kr diya tha ak time uspe ya phir jo abhi hai uspe

मॉडरेटर Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Awww,

Dost, yeh hum aapko nahi bata sakte ki aap un par bharosa karke yeh rishta wapis shuru kariye ya nahi-Lekin ek baat aapko samjhni hogi ki agar aap jaante hain ki woh dobara wahi karengi aur phir aapko aghaat pahuchega toh har baar is sthithi se deal karna ek samya ke baad aapke liye bahut mushqil ho jayega-Isliye apne bhale ke liye, apna sahi-galat sochte hauye ek sahi nirnya khud ke liye lijiye.

https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-can-i-h...

All the best.

Kiran Ki Rai.