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meri ak dost hai jo pahle meri classmate thi, hmlg ka primary education sath me hua phr 4th class me main jab tha to dusre sahar chala aaya,
uske bad main usko bhul chuka tha... lekin ak din achank jab main 11th me tha to uska FB pe msg aaya aur hmlg ki fb pe bat hone lgi, kuch time bad usne mera no. liya aur hmlg ki cll pe bat hone lgi, aur pichle sal hmlg ki graduation cmplt ho gyi aur hmlg ki bate aur badhne lgi,
aur main usko jra karib se smjhne lga...

mujhe pta chla ki uske aur bhi dost hain (male friend) lkn main kch kaha ni
lkn prblm tab strt hui jab mujhe ahsas hua ki wo apne birthdy ke time jyada cll krna strt kr degi, ghanto bat kregi phr bhi bore ni hogi
din bhar kahani sunayegi aur mujhe ye lena hai wo lena hai krte rahegi...aur main gift me usko wo chz de bhi deta tha...
but dhire dhire mujhe ahsas hua ki jab uski birthay chli jati to wo wapas se cll kam kr degi aur main kru bhi to jyada bat ni krti...pure month me 2 ghnte bat ho gyi to bahut hai...
bat krte waqt hmesh bolegi ki tm aayega to ye khilaungi wo khilaungi...lkn jab bhi main usase milne ka progrm bnata wo hmeshe ye prblm hai wo prblm hai bol ke mna kr deti hai..
jabki wo jis sahr me rahti hai wahan pe wo bndo se milti hai ye bat mujhe ab pta chli
main ak din tickt leke socha ki hmlg 4th class ke bad kbhi ni mile to iss bar jarur mil lete hain...lekin wo mujhe sirf 1ghnta di wo bhi apne frnd ke sath aayi wo... jabki usi din mere se milne se pahle wo kisi dusre bnde se mile jo usi ke sahr me rahta hai aur wo 2mahin pahle hin FB se dost bna hai aur ye usase 5th time mili...
lkn mere se bolti hai ki ghr walo bahr ni jane dete bahut strict hai to tmse main kahi bahr jaungi tb milungi...
ab ye sari bat mujhe bahut hurt kr rhi aisa lag rha wo mujhe dost bhi ni smjhti, uske liye main sirf timepass aur credit card wala bnda hun...

main janana chahta hun ki kya ye dosti hai ya ni
kyuki mujhe lg rha mujhe wo use kr rhi aur main dosti ke nam pe use ho rha....
please guide mi....
kyuki main dosti word ko ganda ni krna chahta
agr ye dosti hai to main chahe jo ho nibhaunga but agr ni hai to main bina kch bole apna contact khtam kr dunga usase....
please hlp me

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wo mujhse jhuth bhi baht bolti hai....

मॉडरेटर Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Awww,

Dost kehne ke liye jyada kuch hai-Lekin aap shayd bahut jyada emotional ya gussa hai is baat ko lekar. Toh kuch batein doosra-doosra banda jiski aap baat kar rahe hain agar aap sure hain uss bare mein toh baat saaf hai ki unka jhukaav aapki taraf kum hai. Ab phir chahein aapke gifts lene dawvon ki baat hai toh yeh poori tarah se aapke control mein hai. Kisi bhi dosti, pyar ke rishte mein jab paise-gifts ajate hain toh wahan yeh complex situation khud ba khud aa jati hai. Isliye dosti rahe ya na rahe hum ise band karne ke bare mein vichaar karne ki aapko salah denge.

Philhal, agar aapka dill aur dimaag unki aapke prati dosti par viswash nahi karta hai toh hum aapko apne dill ki sunne aur iss baat ko khatam kar aage badhne ki salah denge.

Ek akhiri baat dost, aap 4th class mein saath they, tab se ab tak kaafi cheeze badl chukin hongi, phone/social media par jitni cheeze jaise dikhti hain asal mein waisee ho zaruri nahi.

Nirnya aapka hai.

https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/will-my-best-friend-lov...
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/relationship-problems/m...
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/mind-it-we-are-just-fri...

Thanks!

Kiran Ki Rai.
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main usko kya smjhta tha wo kya nikli.....
mujhe lgta tha ki wo apni photo sirf mere sath share krti lekin wo to fb wale random ladke ka no. leke uske sath bhi whatsapp pe apni photo share krti.......
ye ladki log bharosa krne lyk hoti hin ni hai...
mujhe ghin aa rhi ab usase......

मॉडरेटर Kiran Ki Rai
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Hello Awww,

Jaisa ki pehle kaha nirnya aapka hai lekin kuch bhi kehne se pehel bhi yeh sochein ki woh apake saath dosti ke rishte mein thi, unhone pyar ki baat kabhi kee hi nahi, right? So woh apne niji jeevan mein kya karti hain yeh unke faisle hain dost.

Phir bhi aapko lagta hai aapka bharosa toota hai, toh hamein iss baat ka behad dukh hai. Aapna khyal rakhiye.

Yeh bhi padhiye shayd madd milegi:
https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/how-to-...

Thanks!

Kiran Ki Rai.