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जिसके द्वारा दर्ज किया गया Asdfghi

Ma'am mene past m bht buri gltiyan ki h lekin ab mene khud ko bikul bdl lia h mera bf mujhe bolte h ki mene tera past accept krke tujhe apnya h lekin ussi jgh ladai m past se related bht kuch bolte h or bolte h tujhe sunna padega puri zindgi tu krke ayi h mene tujhe koi accept kia h...ma'am kya isse accept krna kehte h ...unhe mujhprr bikul trust nhi h mene unke lia hr tarike se adjust kia h sacrifice kia h ...abto wo bolte h m tere sath majboori m rh rha hu chli jaa chod k lekin ma'am m unse bhtt pyr krti hu lekin in ab cheejo se m toot chuki hu andr tk ...kya kru m?

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मॉडरेटर love-matters
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Asdfghi puttar,
sab se pehle to relax. Stress mat lo. Tum bilkul theek keh rahi ho - isse accept karna nahi kehte. Aur tumhe iske baare main apne partner se baat karni chaiye. Ya to wo accept kare ya woh sunana band kare. Beta tumne jo past main kiya so kia - woh past hai. Tum maanti ho ki tum ne galti ki - iske liye tumhe sab se pehle khud ko maaf karna padega - khud ko accept karna padega aur apne aap main yeh confidence lana padega ki tumne apne aap to maaf kar diya aur ab tum sab kuch bhula ke new life jeena chahti ho. Tumhe kissi aur ki validation ya manzorri ki zaroorat nahi. Galtiyan sab se hoti hain - kissi se zyada - kissi se kam - koi maanta hai - koi nahi maanta apni galti puttar. Aur tumne apni galti maani - yeh sab se badi baat hai. Ab jo hua so hua - tum past main ja ke usko theek to nahi kar sakti na. Agar tumhara partner tumne iss ke baare main itna sunata hai - fir bhi tum uske saath kyu rehna chahti ho beta? Woh aaj tumse maafi maang lega - promise bhi kar dega ki tumko fir se tumhare past ke bare main nahi sunayega - lekin beta -woh fir se yeh karega - kyunki usne tumko sahi main accept nahi kia hai - sirf tum ko ehsaan karne ke liye he keh raha hai. Muje to aisa lagta hai. Aage tum khud samajhdaar ho - tum apna decisions khud lo. Agar tum dono iss rishte main khud nahi ho - to iss rishte ko aage badhane ka kya fayda? Yeh padho zara - https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/knowing-whe...

Auntyji
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Lekin ma'am jb ladai shi ho jati wo bolte h m tujhe bht pyr krta hu agr m unko chodne ki soachti bhi hu too ek sath bitaye hue sare pal yaad aa jate h tb m kamjor pd jati hu .