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Rahul
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meri gf hai 1.5 year se...cast diff ke karan hamari shaadi ni ho sakti ye me starting se bolta aa raha hu...hamare beech sex ni hua bus kiss hua tha...but ab meri shaadi fix ho chuki hai maine usko bata diya tha or hamari baat bhi 20 days se nahi hui...koi jhagada bhi ni hua aisi band ho gayi baat...10 days pahle uski friend ka message aaya tha ki uski tabiyat kharab hai or wo hospital me admit hai (ye baat gf ki sister se hui thi ) uski sister bol rahi thi ki meri wajeh se uski tabiyat kharab hai or bahut ghussa bhi kar rahi thi..uski sister jhoot bol ri hai ya ni pata ni..pheer 3 days baad maine gf ko call ki haal chaal jane ke liye to no. Block list me tha...agar usko kuch hua to meri shaadi toot jayegi or pange honge wo alag...ab me kya karu

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Rahul puttar,
yeh to problem wali situation lagti hai thodi - but dont worry, har problem ka hal hota hai. Dekho - sab se pehle to apni ex-gf se baat karne ki koshish karo - jiss friend ka phone aaya tha - use bol do ki tum baat karna chahte ho - uske saath baat karo - usko shayad bura lag raha hoga ki tumhari shaadi hone jaa rahi hai. To ho sakta hai ki woh depress ho. Bas usko bolo ki tum samajh sakte ho ki use bahut bura lag raha hai - lekin usko strong banana hoga - aur usko bolo ki kiss tarah se woh tumhari life ka important hissa hai - aur tum usko hamesha achhi memories se yaad rakhna chahoge. Yeh keh kar usko pyaar se bolo ki iske baad please woh apna dhyaan rakhe aur tumhare baare main kuch galat mat soche. Iss rishte ko pyaar se khatam karo - shayad woh yeh sab sunna chahti ho?
Rahi baat - shaadi tootne ki - to beta kya tum apni hone wali wife ko apni past friend ke baare main bata sakte ho? Kya woh samajh payegi? Usko bolo ki woh tumhari dost thi - lekin tum dono ko pehle se pata tha ki kuch hoga nahi - issliye bas dost bani rahi - koi physical relation nahi hai. She will understand. Ho sake to usse baat karne se pehle pooch lo - ki kya uska koi past main relation tha? Bas simple tareeke se usko apni dost - jo ki ladki hai uske baare main bata do - to tumhara tension khatam ho jayega. All the best! https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/breaking-up/how-to-get-...

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